2007-05-15 02:56:28 · 33 answers · asked by elvis r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you love her very much as well? Or are you keeping her around so that you don't have to be alone. And in the process you're scoping other girls?
2007-05-15 02:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by jd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I t is in every mans nature to feel the way that you are feeling but i suggest that you forget it their is no harm in looking but don't touch'you say that you are with a girl who realy dose love you but ask yourself this .do I realy love her the way she deserves to be loved if the answer is yes then that should make it easier for you to stop thinking about anyone else .But if the answer is no then you should not keep her hanging on but set her free so that she can find someone who will realy love her and give her the happiness that she deserves. BUT be sure that you know what it is that you realy wan't as it may be to late later on after she has moved on with her life.
2007-05-15 03:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by joan_tipton 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are trying to find something you already have. A person like you will never be satisfied with anything or anyone. Do your girlfriend a favor and let her go now,....... she may cry for a while but eventually she will get over you, find someone that is better for her, someone who knows what they want and ultimately she'll be happy. In the mean while you'll keep looking and looking still unsatisfied and alone. Good luck!!!
2007-05-15 03:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Miss G. H. Etto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't love her that's kind of difficult, and you might want to consiter breaking up with her because if you drag out the relationship it might end up pretty bad for both of you. Just be truthful and explain that you can't help your feelings and that you only want what's best for both of you. Now, if you DO love her then just try thinking of other girls as just potential friends , or just people instead of potential girl friends or being sexy. Nothing will get you over other girls beside pure will power, so just be strong.
2007-05-15 03:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by Blackmilk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never stop being attracted to the qualities of other girls that you find desirable to you.
The key is to make an active choice to give your girl your attention, love, and faith ..ect...if you don't want to do that maybe you are not ready for a serious girlfriend?
Good Luck
2007-05-15 03:01:36 · answer #5 · answered by justwondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, if you are not in love do not lead her on. But if you love her then you have to disicplin your mind to look but not touch because you are with someone. It may be difficult at first but if you are in love thats the way it is and if you don't love her break up before you go with someone else because that is a cheating label and you will not be looked at by women as attractive it you are a cheater. Take care Heather
2007-05-15 03:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called self control and discipline. Are you so weak minded that you can't commit to being with a good woman who loves you? If you can't do that on your own,You will always fail in a serious relationship. You will never be happy and no one will trust you with how fickle you are and never take you seriously.
No one wants to be around someone who flakes out so much. The choice is yours to make.
2007-05-15 03:07:27 · answer #7 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just becasue she loves you doesn't mean that you love her. The only way you can stop wanting other girls... is to stop lusting and wanting other girls. Her feelings for you.... has nothing to do with your roaming eyes and thoughts. Be strong.. if you love her, don't cheat, don't flirt, don't lust! Keep your eyes and thoughts to yourself or before you know it..you'll be cheating on her! The grass always looks better on the other side... rarley it is actually greener.
2007-05-15 03:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are wanting other girls then you do not love the one you are with. If you feel that way then you need to break up with your gf and move on with your life it isnt fair for her to give you her heart and you be lusting after other women. A relationship is 2 sided and it sounds like you are making yours a 1 sided relationship. If you dont love her let her go dont hurt her by lusting after other women.
2007-05-15 03:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by superthunda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to take a look at yourself and ask what you want out of the relationship that you are in. Do you see yourselves going far? That should help you make a decision to stop looking at other women.
2007-05-15 02:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by adrienne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋