on sunday my girl friend broke up with me because her mother has a problem with her dating other girls. Last night she told me she has another gf already, i'm thinking "wtf that's bs man" she hurt me so bad, and then goes and does this to make it even worse. I guess I can't blame her though, it's her life. She said she would never want to hurt me, she would do anythng to make me happy. I want to ask her if there is anyway that we could still go out, but I'm kind of scared to. Any advice?
2007-05-15 02:12:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes she hurt me, but being with her makes me SOOO! happy, when i am away from her i am sad and depressed, for the 2 weeks we went out, my depression had disappeared completely. I had went out with her back in December but i never gave her a full chance because i was with some one as well. Now when i was actually able to give her a full chance her mom had to ruin it....... if she loves me as much as she says does, then she shouldn't let her mom keep us apart, am i right?
2007-05-15 02:26:22 · update #1
Stay away ! That was an excuse about her mother , especially if she has a new gf already. You dont need her, and your getting your own hopes up by trying to go out with her.
You said it yourself. she really hurt you. That means you have feelings for her, which means hope exists and pain is possible.
2007-05-15 02:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say, move on. Clearly she's unsure of what it is that she wants. A, she broke up with you because of what her MOM THINKS, B, she goes out and gets a new girlfriend, before you two sheets got cold. I also think that maybe that whole "mom thing" was an excuse to get out of the relationship that you two shared, so that she could start a new one with a girl that she could have very well had been seeing while you two were together. If she didn't want to hurt you, I would think that she would had been more cautious about her actions. She shouldn't had moved on so quickly, and then told you about it. Move on, and always know that you deserve to treated with love, honesty, and respect. Good Luck.
2007-05-15 09:24:14 · answer #2 · answered by mylinda2239 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try boys. Date boys. See what it's like.
Lesbians have no more sense than the worst-organized crafts party of adolescent girls gathering for an afternoon of stringing bead bracelets - with all the opportunities for gossip, betrayal, two-faced behavior and bad manners. In short, you take a step backwards in social development to choose a lifestyle like this.
No mother ever wants her daughter to date other girls. And girls are faithless with girls as they can be with boys. No difference whatsover. And what's left?
She hurt you and so might a feckless boy. But in the long run, you'll be much happier with your chances with boys.
2007-05-23 09:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom is an excuse, if she wanted to be with you, she would be. And I'm sure she dosent' want you to be hurt, that dosent' mean that she'll disregard her own happiness in order not to hurt you. two different things. And.....no one is responsible for your happiness but you........please don't use this relationship as a 'cure all' for your depression, it would come back whether she stayed with you or not. If you are truly depressed, see a therapist. And.............Let go of her, nothing you can say or do will change a persons feelings for you.
2007-05-23 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by tralala853 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is being nice to you by letting you go. If her family is not ok with her dating girls, then you will have drama if she's in your life. Also, she doesnt sound like she really knows what she wants, if she can move on that quickly... I wouldn't put my heart on the line for someone like that.
2007-05-15 09:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by smiley4 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she wanted to be with the other girl.
Didn't have the guts to tell you the truth or to break up with you.
Used her mom as an excuse!!
2007-05-23 02:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Baby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think what you need to do is tell her exactly how you feel and then let the cards fall where they may. It's best to say all you have to say and not get what you want than to not say enough.
2007-05-23 09:11:06 · answer #7 · answered by donnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a 3-way relationship. With Homosexuality, there are no boundaries due it it being unChristian.
2007-05-15 09:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all she will always hurt you so don't date her anymore. Secondly I would recommend dating men, in the long run it will hurt much less.
2007-05-15 09:16:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
sorry about you pain
but she aint ever coming back to u
2007-05-23 08:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋