how should this work? I feel like if you chase guys they won't respect you?
2007-05-15 02:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Lynne 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is true sad but true. The way around it you should play at the same game. I use to chase this guy and he never gave me the day. Until I started playing at his own game, eventually he came around and now he calls or texts me first. But this may not always be the case, if the guy is not feeling you he won't care whether he speaks to you or not. Try it, if he doesn't start reaching out to you, then he is not into you, which helps you not to waste time on someone who wont waste their time on you. But if he does starts calling more often then before he is really feeling you. Just take your time and if he does call don't push it too much. Enjoy the seconds not the minutes. Be excited he call just don't overthink it.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-05-15 02:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Misunderstood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally the truth comes out. Didn't you ever suspect that when Moses wandered in the wilderness for 40 years it was because men won't ask directions? Women confuse them and they simply don't know how to ask directions. They just don't know what to do or anything. So, if a woman is inteested in a man she has to sometimes take the bull by the horns; or whatever. Men are donkeys; give them a beer and they will follow you anywhere.
2007-05-15 02:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sad fact, but there is nothing we can do about it. They seem to think there must be something wrong with you if they don't have to chase you down. Like you have to be a prize they have won and beat out other men for. I am sure there are exceptions to the rule, but it is probably about 1 in a 100.
2007-05-15 02:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by browneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys do like for girls to go after them because then they feel like they haven't lost anything. guys like to feel like they are the hottest thing on the planet. i know that i chased my boyfriend and we've been together for nearly three years now. he doesn't disrespect me either.
2007-05-15 02:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by amber~nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BS. It takes guts to take the initiative. I find it refreshing.
2007-05-15 02:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋