My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 2 1/2 weeks, and i really want to kiss her. Were both 15, and this is our first relationship. Im really nervous about kissing her the first time. How and when should i go about kissing her? Ive never done this before and am confused on how to do so.
2007-05-15 01:48:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
haha my first kiss came naturally we were both in a middle of a conversation and i was saying smth really dumb and he kept staring into my eyes and i just stopped talking and it happened lol i can never forget that it was soo romantic
2007-05-15 01:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by ILOVEU 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it when you feel comfortable,make a move to kiss her first as most girls wait for that...She is probably nervous too so don't worry about your performance,she will like it anyway as it shows you care about her in a loving way...You can even mention the fact you are nervous about it prior top doing it or after the fact...it would help ease the tenseness going on for the both of you..There may be a moment you feel its the "right" time to kiss her and then again it could just be spontaneous,just go with the flow and see where it takes you both..good luck!
2007-05-15 02:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to show her the respect she deserves by asking first. Say something simply like, "Can I kiss you?" Maybe at the end of a date or right at the beginning (gets the awkwardness out of the way). Most likely she is waiting for you to make your move and just as anxious and nervous as you. Make it a soft, gentle kiss. Nothing long or drawn out. It is very romantic and sweet. Congratulations and enjoy.
2007-05-15 01:53:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mr.Boombastic 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is all a major big deal at 15, I know only too well. Don't sweat it too much. After all, you're only going to remember this for the rest of your life, right? :-)
It might make a difference if she is as totally inexperienced as you are. If she is, then my suggestion is to just move in close at the end of the date and just whisper something endearing to her...as simple as "I really enjoyed hanging out with you today" and see if she moves closer to you. If you do this right, she won't be able to move closer without your lips touching. Ta-daaa.
If she is more experienced, then exploit the heck out of that. She would love to be your first. Just tell her, and let her drive for a while. Be honest, tell her you're scared out of your mind, and if she's the one, she will take it from there.
Good luck, have fun, don't bite.
2007-05-15 01:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are carefully considering this is really sweet! Have you seen the movie, "Hitch?" It has a great scene with Will Smith trying to explain to Kevin James's character about how to give a first kiss...Check it out. I think it will be just the explanation you are looking for...Good luck!
2007-05-15 06:13:10 · answer #5 · answered by Oceana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first kiss should be sweet. not to long and not to short. i never felt disrespected whenever a guy did not ask me for permission. it actually made me feel nervous and weird. sometimes i didn't want to kiss the guy.(blind dates nothing serious so don't worry about that) but you should do it when your either picking her up or dropping her off. look at her in her eyes. let her know its coming by just tellin how you feel about her, lick your lips or something and just go in for it!!! what ever you do, DO NOT hesitate. oh and you should also let your lips linger on hers for just a while. i know i always loved it when guys did that!! my hubby does it all the time and im always wantin more!!
2007-05-15 02:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by pixies911 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok u had the right idea because tht is the perfect time to hav a first kiss because if u hav it before u hang out then itz gonna be awkward when u hang out so go for it right before she leaves what u got to do is just force ur self (unless ur not ready) take a suddle deep breath look her deep in the eyes with a look like ur so fasenated by her beauty and tht ur crazy about her but keep it a little suddle then just go for it if you do that shell thnk of it like a fantasy kiss and for a long time wont forget the look u gave her before ur first kiss its easier than it sounds but if u dont do anything eventully she might think u dont want to good luck;)
2016-03-19 05:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww the first kiss. firstly make sure it's somewhere romantic like on a walk in the countryside etc. kissing is so natural and easy, the best way to explain would be kiss her top lip as she'll be kissing your bottom (lip that is) don't worry too much about tongue to start with but if you wanna use it slip it into her mouth gently and stroke her tongue with yours and it's just pretty much repeating that. good luck
2007-05-15 01:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very gently, and with love. More of a light touching. Skip the soul kissing for now, you can get to that later.
2007-05-15 01:51:43 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by a good kiss on the lips. (be nice).
Then weeks later on if all goes well, as the country song says:
I used to kiss her on the lips, but it's all over now!!!
2007-05-15 01:59:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋