1.) Do you know anyone that didn't start dating and having bf's or gf's until after high school? Did anyone make fun of them? Is it okay to get your first bf or gf in college?
2.) Am I right on this..... A boyfriend is someone that you date but you aren't officially bf and gf and a serious boyfriend is someone that you date and you are officially bf and gf? If this is not right add stuff to it to make sense.
3.) If you don't date or have a bf or gf all through middle school and high school does that mean that you will end up alone with no one? Did any of you NOT date in MS and HS? Is it common for someone to get their first bf or gf at age 19 or 20? Is that weird?
2007-05-15 00:58:03 · 12 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's probably more strange to have boy friends or girl friends at school and then not have any for years afterwards. That's me.
2007-05-15 01:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.) I actually no this guy, very attractive, that is 21 now and he just went out on his first date. He has always been shy and didnt feel like asking a girl out. I dont think anyone ever made fun of him because he was a great guy. And yes its probably better to wait until college to date, that way you are dealing with smater guys that are less likely to screw you over.
2.) Ok a boyfriend is a boyfriend no matter how serious the relationship is. If both of you agree that you are officially a couple, then your boyfriend and girlfriend. It does eventually get "serious" but you should still have respect for eachother in the very beginning also.
3.) You wont end up alone just because you didnt date when you were in HS or MS. People date when they are ready to date, not when its "right" to someone else to date. Just take your time and do whats right for you and not whats right for the other people that you hang around.
2007-05-15 08:07:37 · answer #2 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
1. I started dating in middle school. i am now in a senior in high and im still dating. just not the same guy. i have had over five boyfriends. but yeah people sometimes do get made fun of if they never had a bf or gf in middle/high school and start dating in college. it is kinda odd.
2. Ok if youre dating someone that means youre either their gf or bf. theres no such thing as a serious boyfriend and just a boyfriend. there is a such thing if he's serious about the realtionship or not. if he's not get out of it.
3. If youve been single through out middle/high school that doesnt mean you'll be alone forever. just means you werent ready for a relationship then. a lot of people are like that and still are. and yes it is common to start dating someone later on...i know people who didnt start dating until they were like 18 or 19. dont worry when the right guy comes along you'll know it. just take youre time and enjoy life while you can.
2007-05-15 08:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~Crissy~*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) I only got my first kiss at Varsity and it didn't bother me or anybody else that matters. Remember it's all mind over matter: Those that mind don't matter and those that matter fon't mind.
2) A relationship is a commitment. When you commit to one guy and he commits to you he becomes your BF, As to serious, that comes later in life.
3) I only got my first kiss at university and my fist GF soon after. I'm now 27 and have had more than my fair share of girl friends. Your dating scene at MS and HS has no bearing on your dating scene later in life.
Relax and take life as it comes. Worrying about it won't make it better and might make you jump into something you are not ready for.
2007-05-15 08:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by Paul G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't "date" until college. And even then, "Dating" meant something more like a picnic in the park or trip to the museum. We were poor college students.
Yes, I got made fun of. Sure it hurt but I didn't care. Those who made fun of me were petty, mean people anyway.
Funny thing tho - through high school, I was in the local youth orchestra and associated with a lot of "cute college boys" because of my music. Despite the fact that I was a dumpy, not terribly pretty high school girl, I always was surrounded by cute guys. Don't ask me why.
It's still that way - I'm a dumpy, not very pretty mature woman - who still plays music and is still surrounded by dashing men - some older, some younger- but they're still hanging around me. Don't ask me why.
True story. I graduated HS early and went right to the local college. I was participating in a foreign language fair that happened to be attended by some of my old classmates. I was so excited to see them - to share my experiences as a college freshman - Oh my oh my.
The only thing they could ask me was "who are you dating now?" Wow. what a letdown. "Who are you dating." There were so many more important things - like how college professors don't give a darn whether you attend class or not... and and and. But NO. All they could ask me was "Who are you dating."
Fortunately the MC of the language fair - a dear friend and real dreamboat of a guy with sweet brown eyes and a darling smile and all those dreamy looks and personality that girls love - came up, put his arm around me and said with a smile, "Me."
I will always have a spot in my heart for WB
2007-05-15 08:13:55 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you started in hs you would be a head of the game by now you must be ugle because pretty girls go out all the time men are all ways trying to get in girls pance at that age ill bet that first man was lucky or the first man that you liked every buddy moves at a diefront pace you will be all right
2007-05-15 08:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by ohm o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not unusual to be in a relationship until your in college. honestly most people dont care or for that matter pay attention to how many relationships you've been in. about the bf thing calling a guy your boyfriend usually means your going out. hope this helps
2007-05-15 08:03:46 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're saying. Im about to graduate from highschool and I havent had a boyfriend. I used to think that was kind of lame but Im over it because it will happen when its supposed to happen. And for everyone that time is different for whatever reason.
2007-05-15 08:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by ariyana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i didnt date serious yet i feel its a waste of time when im friends with someone and i feel that we have a strong connection not a i like you i think connection then i will date other wise its a waste of time, money and most of all feelings.
2007-05-15 08:02:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill girl! Everybody's different. You're not destined to be alone just because you didn't go out with the pimple squad.
2007-05-15 08:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by Gary W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋