My boyfriend of eight months seems to be addicted to the internet. We live together and because of medical reasons he is unable to work. I have found that he plays pool all day and talks to many many women. I recently found some emails that he had exchanged with some of these women. Very personal...He tells me I am the only one he wants that he is happy, he just gets bored! what am I supposed to think, is he cheating?
2007-05-15 00:48:57 · 13 answers · asked by karakalkel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think he has ever met any of these women they are so far away, but he has talked to some on the phone, and said things to them that he does to me...Calls them the same names as me IE: baby, sweetie, honey. And get very sexual talk. I only talk to the same guys I have talked to in the past, not meeting new ones. I want to trust him, I just find it hard when he shows them things, that I feel in a committed relationship that shouldn't!
2007-05-15 00:58:55 · update #1
I have personally never cheated on a guy I ws dating. I have been burned in the past so I am ALWAYS leery about it....I can't help it that my mind wanders to that is I see something. Like the emails or phone numbers!
2007-05-15 01:20:59 · update #2
No problem. This is not serious matter if otherwise every thing is all right. Such casual additions are only timely not for long.According to you writing this are not normal .The better course is to ignore. Yours should be upper hand in decision making .Think reasonable.
2007-05-15 00:53:30 · answer #1 · answered by baba 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just someone on the net...no big deal...you just posting this shows that you don't trust him enough to have a working relationship. You should trust him not to be cheating if you plan on staying with this guy. And whatever you do don't tell him you're concerned.
I don't know about other guys but I'd break it off with someone if they accused me of cheating. Not only does it show how low they think of you but poeple only get worried about things like that when they either would have done something in that situation you don't want them to be doing or you already have.
Phsycology 101 people.
2007-05-15 01:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by David J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother of such things dear. Its a very common thing with all men and not just your boyfriend. Why even husbands do the same thing. All men want just to enjoy themselves. As i told someone else that these men in spite of having the best they always feel the grass is greener on the other side. Its their nature and also helps to boost their very much inflated egos thinking that they are gods gift to woman. So dear don't take tension about he cheating on you. It will only create problems and fights between the two of you and will affect your relationship.
2007-05-15 02:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by paradisegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is more than a addict
he is addicted to pleasure,when he was tasting the happiness and love with one that is u he was true,now he has tasted the same with many and is sure that he is capable of getting what ever he wants from any one he likes,literally he has broken the love,happiness,pleasure and tasted the apple which he should not have,so even if you try hard to put him in the right part which you think is good and succeed it is difficult for me to assure that he will be as you want even in the future,if he is going to turn the same after marriage and giving birth to a baby what you will do?these are my views ,it is better that you think and decide as a person than a lover (which may make you a love addict)and fall prey to his nasty thoughts and attitude
mistakes are forgived so it is never the late you grow out of your mistake of falling in love with him.if you still want his company the only person who can help you is you visit www. asho.com
dont get embarresed it is true it had helped many
addicts ,read for yourself and ask your lover to just read for you and practice for few monts regullarly .
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2007-05-15 03:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are there in person, they are not! anyway dont tell me u never talked to anyone in real life that never did have at least a little interest in ? it doesnt count as cheating right ? same goes here, u built trust but dont depend on it, u keep building it to the point it never stops, anyway at the end of the day follow your heart, it will allways tell u the truth
2007-05-15 00:53:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your partner is having sexual conversations with women online then there is something seriously wrong with your relationship. Do not put up with this. While I do not deem what he is doing to be outright cheating, it is unfaithful and disloyal to you.
2007-05-15 01:58:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no worries dear, chatting on net or flirting on ph. doesn't mean dat he is cheating u ,
u hv to believe him, if u hv any doubt jst ask him thru ut ur conversation, but politely, rather than wondering awful thngs, it will really work,
he will undrstnd u ,,
n remember to be positive..
all d best
2007-05-15 01:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by Leon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's just a very sociable person I guess. A guy doesn't have to shun all women just cos he's in a relationship.
2007-05-15 00:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes **** can be addicted, like kinda like being on drugs the body need to do it at some time wuthin that day. just google {addiction to ****}. it can we very bad
2016-05-18 05:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by mildred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have personal conversations with women over the net too. Doesn't mean I'm sleeping with them.
2007-05-15 00:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by Gary W 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋