Here's a few possible scenarios.
a) You're not doing anything. You think you're attractive enough to have a guy approach you. Dating is a tricky business, but you can't sit there and wait for things to happen. You gotta make it happen yourself!
b) You're targeting the wrong guys. The guys you may have an interest in won't always have mutual feelings. Don't stick to one kind of guy, even if you know exactly what you want in him. This isn't a fairy tale, and things won't always end up happily ever after.
There could be other reasons. But don't get discouraged about it. You seem like a nice girl. I'd go out with you if I knew you. Be persistent in the hunt. Someone will be there for you to find.
2007-05-14 23:56:26
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answer #1
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answered by Niko? 5
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They say that you can smell desperation from across the room - so the first thing is to simply stop trying so hard. The best relationships have happened from chance encounters...
As strange as it might seem, people can tell if you're "working the room" - that is, scanning everybody there as if you were at a meat market (which is why they use that term to refer to single's bars).
The easist way to meet someone is to be introduced by a friend - it gives the two of you something in common immediately (the friend), and it also helps in the "screening" process (a good friend would never set you up with a creep).
It might be possible that you are simply looking in the wrong place - single's bars and frat nights typically only attract one kind of guy (if that's what you're looking for, then more power to you!)...
2007-05-15 00:01:25
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answered by kr_toronto 7
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No idea. Just be patient. Don't make it an issue, and it won't be a problem. Make it known that you are looking for Mr. Right. Also, take a shower daily.
2007-05-14 23:51:36
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answered by Delta Charlie 4
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Sometimes shyness can be mistaken for arrogance. If you are the quiet type, work on being more extroverted.
And you say you are attractive...the better looking you are, the less you will be asked out. Maybe you should be more aggressive,
2007-05-14 23:51:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Loose a few pounds,smile more & let UR hair grow longer.
2007-05-14 23:51:41
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answered by Klingon 6
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Maybe you come on too strong. It's hard to say since I don't personaly know you.
2007-05-15 00:00:37
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answered by Anonymous
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must b trying to get the wrong type of people. be patient, be yourself and things will happen.
2007-05-14 23:57:12
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answered by Anonymous
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maybe ur too good looking?
normal men will think they donot have a chance with u?
2007-05-14 23:55:34
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answered by lord 3
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u sound beautiful. I guess thr guys are stupid there . xxxxxx
2007-05-14 23:53:21
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answered by ? 6
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