sincerely i can't stand being in a relationship.Firstly i hate all that comes with it.The arguments,the trust issues,the jealousy,being open and comfortable with one another,trying to be nice even when you are pissed and you always have to be thoughful even when things are impossible like sex issues,....isanything wrong with me?
2007-05-14 22:58:27 · 12 answers · asked by patme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
God, I think you just need to meet the right partner. I think we all feel like that at times. It's frustration somewhat. Sorry!
2007-05-14 23:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by TJ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sincerely, then get out of it, if you can't stand being in one.
Ok, if you hate the arguments, the trust issues, the jealousy, being open and comfortable with another, trying to be nice even when you are MAD, and thoughtful when there is issues.
Is anything wrong with you?
I would say take a break from being in a relationship for a long time, and just be by yourself!
I would not be in a relationship if I were you, I would not want to hurt anyone if I were you and in a relationship.
Sounds like you have a lot of issues, during your time off, I would talk to a doctor and get on some medication, to help you resolve your issues.
2007-05-15 06:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is worng with you, if youre a girl like me, i can definitely understand you coz i used to feel the same. the problem is not just finding the right partner, but also realizing that you do need and want a partner. because when you know the worth of having someone, all the things that you hate - arguments, jealousy etc.- you will naturally learn how to deal with them. Your partner must be as patient as you, because it will be really hard at first, but if you are determined to change your views, you'll make it. As for now, noone can force you to have a relationship, it is your choice and unless you have made up your mind that you are willing to sacrifice and accept the things that you have no control over - all relationships go through several problems - you are bound to fail and find yourself more and more frustrated.
2007-05-15 06:13:17 · answer #3 · answered by cristal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u've not met ur kind of person. take it easy and calm wit urself. its not easy though but believe me u can do it.
take everything slow and steady, define ur reasons for going into any relationship and make sure u achieve ur goals, have fun while it lasts.
dont ever be in a rush cos you might get pissed at the whole thing. cheers
2007-05-15 07:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by rubies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah nothing wrong with you, just dont wanna commit to anything yet at the moment your looking at the bad stuff to do with relationships just wait till you meet someone you truly love that will go away and you'll only see it as how happy they make you!
2007-05-15 06:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by sumthing_to_say_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U might be a lesbian and prefer the company of women but hey thats just what im saying dont take it too serious
2007-05-15 06:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrond with you - you probably just haven't met the right person yet. Love can make you change in the most wonderful ways...
2007-05-15 06:03:22 · answer #7 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's the attitude.
Happiness is there in giving and taking.
It's essential to know that we cannot live alone.
Some adjustments and understandings are required to be adopted.
2007-05-15 06:06:47 · answer #8 · answered by sureshcm m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel yaaaaaaa.
As living beings,with sporadic,crazzzy emotions,I think it's good,and needed.
In the end of 'dating'...
You know when you're done,content,and willing to continue for good with him/her.
2007-05-15 06:08:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess so...how are you going to commit in a marriage if you cant even stand a relationship??
2007-05-15 06:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋