Presently many guys are around me and want to be with me..some are serious and some are just for sex,but sometimes in my life i just have this disgust towards men.I cant stand any kind of involvement with them other than friendship..and i also feel disgusted sexually.I see only the nasty side of sex..and i read through their lies?Is something wrong with me?
2007-05-14 22:55:18 · 9 answers · asked by lady c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing is wrong with you. I've had this happen plenty of times. Especially after being hurt by men multiple times. There comes a time in life where sometimes sex wont appeal to a woman, unless you are deeply in love. That is good! You want that! You don't want to be sleeping around anyway... I say wait it out. Something will come around to make you feel differently. It may just take time.
2007-05-14 23:00:05 · answer #1 · answered by Manda Bear 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No, you are reacting to the way men treat you. Start being more discerning. Don't date or even give attention to every jerk that pays you a compliment. Get to know them on a friendship level before progressing to the next level. A good friend can be your best lover, a wonderful boyfriend, and later a great husband.
Believe me, I have been where you are now.
2007-05-15 06:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope - there is nothing wrong with you. It just sounds like you have had your fair share of being hurt by men.
Just be friends with them, if and when you want to. Hang out with your girl friends, do stuff for yourself that you enjoy.
Someday you will find someone who, as a friend, you might want to get closer to. That would be the right one to date. Take your time - don't date anyone who you don't want to. It's all your choice.
Good luck! Have fun until you find the right one!
2007-05-15 06:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Only_my_opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a typical woman that has gained lots of experience with the opposite sex.
The way I see it your are the type woman that must have a emotional attachment with a guy before having sex. This sounds healthy to me. I can only guess you haven't had feeling of wanting to be with women.
2007-05-15 06:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything that is "wrong" with you. Some guys are slimy. What you should look at is why you feel the way that you do. If you go through periods of feeling this way - look at what they causes are. Is it because some guy or couple of guys end up causing this because of things that they do?
2007-05-15 06:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by bigej65 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Lady C, can you send me a photo. I can sense you're an attractive woman. I don't want to go out with you, it's just a suspicion I have. Good Luck, hope you find a nice man!
2007-05-15 05:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by TJ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
TRY to find out WHY U think that way.
Go for an honest relationship.
2007-05-15 06:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be a lesbian and feel better with girls
2007-05-15 05:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you might be bi
2007-05-15 05:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by chattdude43 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋