we have been together since october and have been sexually intimate the last few months, but he never said anything about marriage, or having babies neither does he talk about responsibilities to any woman. he had a similar relationship in the past, they did not have any child and he said it was the girl who left him,
2007-05-14 22:29:33 · 10 answers · asked by always curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You've not even been together a year, haven't discussed the possibility of marriage, and you want to ask him to marry you?
NOT a good idea. He will run for the hills.
2007-05-15 00:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by duritzgirl4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost I would like to applaud you and pray to god that you aint the only modern woman out there. even after the era and stuff, 99% of women are still stuck in the 50s and think its the man's place and if he dont ask then he aint worth marrying. that wild bill answer was only semi rite. I would talk to him in a way to check to make sure that marriage is at least in his plans. if u are certain that it is then like that one answer mentioned just ask him. maybe do something creative or something. If u have any daughters i hope u raise them up to be like you. the era was not only for legal reasons but social as well. women sadly for the most part are still stuck in the 50s. so i applaud you and when u ask him however you do it. make it special like have his boss at work deliver a memo with ur marriage proposal or what ever.
2007-05-15 06:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by gnr_tj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've only been together 7 months. If you haven't even discussed the idea of marriage, he'll run if you ask him to marry you. Please don't do it! Just ask him how he feels about it, or ask where he thinks the relationship is going. He might not know yet. Most people need more than a year to decide about marriage.
2007-05-15 08:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by tink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say whether or not you have even told each other you love each other. I am assuming you have. I think you need to talk to him about marriage first to see if he is even thinking that. Just bring it up casually, say if you know anyone getting married start by talking about their wedding and then swing it to talking about the 2 of you. If you catch him off guard and he is not thinking about marriage, you may scare him a little bit.
2007-05-15 08:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cash, Gage and Jax's Mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with D down below. You two have only been together 6 months! What is the big rush?? Do you two even live together yet? And don't you someday want to get that feeling when HE asks YOU?
Stop trying to rush love & just let nature take its course! I was with my fiance for over 5 years before he proposed to me, even though I was ready after two years!
2007-05-15 09:03:14 · answer #5 · answered by Shaun M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dear.. I feel U should not ask him to marry U. Ask him his opinion about marriage. Talk very generally. After Knowing his opinions, if you feel he will be a good husband than ask him about marrying.
2007-05-15 05:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by jagath 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find the right time when it is just you two. Take his hand and ask if he would marry you.
2007-05-15 05:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Wild Bill 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you know him longer and you have discussed marriage and you know how he feels about it.
2007-05-15 07:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by allyeeee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when the time is right, just ask
2007-05-15 05:32:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
good luck.................
2007-05-15 06:16:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋