I don't have a reason. I just want to. Why does it have to matter so much? I know, I know....it's wrong, bla bla bla...I'm not going to die from it. I just like the way I feel when I cut.
I think I'm a psychopath. I hate myself, so I pretty much owe this to myself.
2007-05-14 20:51:18 · 16 answers · asked by Mabel 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
God loves you. I'm not some preacher on a streen corner. I'm a concerned human being. Even if you hate yourself, which I have before, God will always love you. No matter what you do or have done. He can forgive anything you do. Hurting yourself, another thing i used to do, doesn't help. It only makes it worse.
God bless.
2007-05-14 20:56:32 · answer #1 · answered by Peter B 2 · 2⤊ 5⤋
If this is true, then you really need to get some help. Cutting is not normal and most people do it to get relief from building stress and tension. It is the only control they feel in their lives so they do it to let off that tension and stress they feel from feeling out of control. Some are so depressed , the pain from the blade is the only thing they "feel" so they do it to feel alive. Either way, it is a dangerous thing, you could cut too deep and bleed to death or do nerve damage etc. If your a juvenile, you need to find the strength to tell a parent, teacher, or a trusted adult about your compulsion and let them get you some help. You have to learn better coping skills to deal with whatever feelings are driving you to this. You will feel a world better. Your not a psychopath, just have severe issues that CAN be helped. You don't deserve to feel this way. Get help! NOW
2007-05-15 03:58:01 · answer #2 · answered by WENDY S 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You can't be nearly as psychopathic as me, I'm too much of a wuss to cut though.
As most other people would tell you, you need profesional help (as long as you want it to stop, if not then there's not alot people can do for you, unless you nearly die and are locked up for your own safety).
Have you told anyone you know? Parents? (wouldn't reccomend parents, but try talking to friends). It's rediculously common among teenagers and older people now, due to the constant advertisment of it all over magazines and movies, if you feel like talking, send me an email (don't know why you would, but it helps sometimes).
2007-05-15 04:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously....GET HELP!!!
Self harm is not a normal thing to do. It can eventually turn into something alot worse... (if you catch my drift)...
You CAN die from it...if you accidentally cut too deep. But you are NOT a psychopath...trust me. You just need some help. No one deserves to be hurt...NEVER think like that or you will go down a long, dark path of self destruction, which is VERY unpleasant.
Go and see you're doctor or go to the emergency room NOW! It's never to late to save yourself.
Good Luck
2007-05-15 05:12:08 · answer #4 · answered by Black Rainbow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters so much, because deep down you know and feel that you'd rather not hurt yourself. You like the way you feel then... maybe you can find a way to feel the same way, without cutting yourself.... It truly would be best if you are prepared to look the feelings and emotions in the eye that cause you to want to feel pain. You can solve a lot by just accepting a difficult feeling, or at least acknowledging it... I really hope you can find another way. :) I hated myself too, and I hurt myself too, not by cutting but by chasing everyone I loved out of my life... believe me, that hurts too... but in the end I found another way, I still don't like myself very much, but I no longer feel the need to be destructive... hope you can really really find the other way...
2007-05-15 03:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen, its normal for you to want to hurt yourself, but believe me, you don't want to. Allot of people will say different things about either getting help or what not, but Please get help!!!. I used to be just like you and had no reason to live, wanted to kill myself, i mean i was pretty bad. But i asked for help and i am so much happier now that i did. Granted life sucks some times but you will learn how to get past it and look at things that are better.
There is no reason to hate yourself and no, you do NOT owe it to yourself to hurt yourself. I am sure that there are things about you that are great, you have to look at yourself and think, what am i good at and what things do i like in life that i want to improve in.
The best thing to do is seek help, it will help you to feel better and make you not want to hurt yourself, trust me, hurting yourself will only harm you in the long run.
You have to also find things in life that you could do that are better then inflicting pain. Do you like to bike ride, paint, are you good at writing stories. Find something worthwhile that will take your mind off of wanting to hurt yourself.
Good luck and i hope you find some good resources.
2007-05-15 04:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by djf985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a psychopath. I don't know why i do what i do either, but i know i enjoy it. It hurts like hell afterwards, but i seem to keep doing it, and i can never give anyone a reason why i do it. Or why i want to...
2014-03-13 01:40:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know a lot of girls who do it and have done it and i think there are better ways try writting down the way u fell or take a dark red marker and drawn a line on ur skin push harm to make it more real and this will make ur body think that u have cut and dont worry if ur thoughts are bad and scary and write potery it works 4 me
2007-05-15 07:18:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were a psychopath you would love yourself lots, not hate. So, you sound like quite an intelligent person, so no one in this forum needs to tell you - SEEK PROFESSIONAL ADVICE!! But you already knew that, so maybe it is an attention thing??
2007-05-15 03:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ali 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I suffer with depression and i be thinking that i want to hurt myself but i'm a punk i don't. first of all you need to ask yourself why you want to hurt yourself and don't say you don't know. then seek professional help. please!!!!! we select escapism by doing some of the stupidest things. you don't have to suffer today. get some support from people with the same issues you heave.
stay strong remember that god loves you for you who are not for who you want to be. god made us to be his children. so the next time you want to do something stupid pray it helps.
2007-05-15 04:03:48 · answer #10 · answered by chocolate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to psychiatrist and explain u r feelings to him.
dont hurt urself every human being has right to enjoy his liife,
think about people around u who loves u alot,then i am sure u will be happy by spending time with them.
2007-05-15 04:06:42 · answer #11 · answered by prasuna k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋