My boyfriend and I work together and tonight he gave me a dozen roses after work. We both have all morning off tomorrow and he said he was tired and wanted to go home. I said okay and I left but I noticed his car was still in the parking lot. So I turned around to check on him because he sometimes has car problems. He then was like "Oh I'm just relaxing" and I was like "I thought you said you were tired" and he was like "yahh I am, let's go" so he drives off and then parks a little ways down again. I got upset and he goes "I knew you were going to come that's why I did it!" and then he did it again another time. Then he finally left for good. I've never not trusted him until now but I do know he likes to play mind games with me. What should I do and should I be concerned or no? Thanks!
2007-05-14 19:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds a little weird to me. Dump the chump...after you change jobs of course.
2007-05-14 19:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you work in the same department? in close proximity? If you do, maybe he needs a bit of space?.......or maybe he is 'cooking something up" and needed someone's advice? um a female perspective???????
Heck, I might do that to my significant other, if I needed to talk a woman friend to bounce ideas off of. She'd probably get the same ideas you got. Suspicion, is not a good thing to go thru, for a guy or a woman.
I hope things work out
2007-05-15 02:43:34 · answer #2 · answered by no_einstein 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it seems he is up to something -I would never do that now-but once I would lie and do whatever
this is what changed my life=this is a tough one
I would pray and relax in Jesus
and if it ever gets to the next level make sure its in marriage because I learned the hard way=
if involved or not this can help=
this is what helped change me=Ok lets see this-once I was living a lie but saying it was the truth
till we belong to Jesus-He said of me and all "You are of the other father, the father of lies who comes to decieve, and destroy." the Gospels
I use to be but this is what changed me= To have the greatest happiness and to honor a g/f who loves Jesus a true princess and to honor "In marriage the bed is undefiled but the others will be judged."
I had to come clean=as the Bible says in Proverbs and Psalm 103 if one repents and forsakes a sin then it is burried into the deapest sea to be remembered no more, His desire is for you to be saved and to serve the Lord till you get there too.
this is what got things right for me=this is what helped me to be able to keep the truth -and you cant lose something that is not yours. We belong to Jesus-and with this prayer-pray about getting a book at the Bible book store on this subject, true love, relationships and more.
best i can say is this works-the bible says if you search with all your heart you will find him.
Read the Gospel of John and see what God has to say, when you get to John 3 it talks about repenting and being born again to see the kingdom of heaven.
I read on till Revelation chapter 3 verses 19&20 Jesus says "I love you repent from your sins (even one lie) and ask me in to have fellowship with you and you with me." =to be your friend
I prayed, "Jesus thank you for dying for my sins, I am sorry for them, come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
this helped me know who I am and gave me the courage to be the best I can be. Praying for you too, David
2007-05-15 02:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i guess ( not trying to offend u ) u really stress him , i guess he want u to change , be more calm ,relaxed , not 2 ask alot or be quick judging or act quickly , so he keep mind gaming u so he can prove u that u need 2 change for him.
2007-05-15 02:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by evilzone92000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't mind games for kids in high school i mean if he wants to play games play them in bed or on a ps2 or ps3 i would can the game player and find a guy that isn't gonna play games with your emotions
2007-05-15 02:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by big 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds kinda weird to me, and folks say that I'm kinda weird around the edges.
2007-05-15 02:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for ghosts around every corner and just enjoy the time you spend with him.
When he proves to be untrustworthy (and you'll know when in your gut, so don't ignore it), then dump him, and go find someone else to enjoy your time with.
2007-05-15 02:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by 452 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
u should b concerned, sumthin aint right with at
2007-05-15 02:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by mike06 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
if i did this to my girl it would be because...i want to see how much she cares for me. im basically testing her. how far she would go for me. like u said, he said he was tired. i would think that probly he wants to see if u see if he gets home safetly or something.
2007-05-15 02:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by lino 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋