i am 17 and want to that, if i have sex with my byfrnd then after my marrige will my husband will make out that i had some relation ship by seeing my organs.if yes then how do they they come to know?
2007-05-14 19:28:21 · 20 answers · asked by pooja p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
abously my future husban
2007-05-15 19:13:10 · update #1
no one can see if you have had sex before what you are referring to is the hymen, a hymen can break doing day to day activities or even playing sports, riding a bike, so it wont be possible to tell if it is broken due to having sex or anything else, he will not know wether or not you are a vrigin, but you should be honest with him about your past....I would still recommend waiting until you are sure this is something you want to do......sex is av very intimate and isn't a subject to be taken lightly, whatever you do just be safe!!
2007-05-14 19:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by KrIs 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO your husband will not be able to tell from looking at your organs. The outer part of your private parts does not change in appearance when you have sex - it's just that the hymen (thin layer of skin just inside the vagina) breaks, allowing the penis to go fully into the vaginal canal. Therefore, your husband might feel his penis sliding in easily when he makes love to you, but you can still trick him into thinking that you are a virgin by screaming the first time you have sex with him and pretending it hurts a lot.(aka that he is the one to break your hymen) He'll believe you.
Which brings me to my next point: Why are you worried what your husband thinks? Its OK not to be a virgin. Nobody expects you to be a virgin when you get married - unless you are really really religious. Remember, sex is a wonderful thing that everyone does and deserves to have. Don't worry about your future husband and do what you want. You will have many experiences and one day meet the guy who wil love you and will probably be happy that you are not a virgin because it will make you better in bed. Good Luck
2007-05-14 19:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Safari G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-09 21:32:04 · answer #3 · answered by tekchand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl.... there are much better things to do to make yourself a better person than having sex.
If I may say, don't do it with your boyfriend. If you can, with all your will power, preserve it for your husband and make it as your gift. Its something that he will treasure for the rest of his life..
Its all worth it to preserve it.
Instead, concentrate in your studies, attain higher education and better work someday, during the process, you will meet guys along the way with better outlook in life and better people and worth having a relationship with...
But on the sex issue, even if the whole world is doing premarital sex, I could only suggest that you don't go through it for less heartaches, dear.
2007-05-14 19:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by Maryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to re-word your question, but i think i understand what you are trying to say. Are you saying that if you have sex with your bf now, will your husband in the future be able to tell that you have had sex before, by looking at you? well it can go either way. if you only have sex once i am pretty sure he wont know unless you tell him. but if you have sex a lot of times your p*ssy is gonna get all loose and its gonna be noticable.
hope i helped
♥ kitty ♥
2007-05-14 19:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by *Kitty* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am taking it that you are asking if your future husband will be able to tell that you've had sex, and guessing that you are planning on having sex, then telling any prospective husband that you are a virgin?
You shouldn't lie about it. If it's important for you that your husband think you are a virgin on your wedding night, then don't have sex until then. If you do have sex, then he deserves to know the truth. Lying is a bad way to start a marriage.
2007-05-14 19:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mnementh 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer to you question in my experience is yes there is a
difference.
I think that waiting till you get married sounds important to you and you should consider it.
Realistically a lot of people who have premarital sex still get married and their spouse accepts them for who they are, as they are. Hopefully you will find some one who loves you as you are and not someone that you would have to lie to. Living a lie usually is a formula for disaster.
2007-05-22 18:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime a woman has sex, the name of the man with which she has had sex appears on her chest...permanently. The only way that your husband will not know that you have not had sex with anyone else is if you do not allow him to see your chest.
2007-05-14 19:33:01 · answer #8 · answered by Star 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Where are you from ? This day and age you don't buy a car unless you drive it and I'm not saying to be a whore but for some people sex is important and if sex with your partner is not good and that is important to you than I suggest you drive the car first
2007-05-14 19:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Reynaldo R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to ur mother if possible or a trusting adult. Sorry but U need to B educated more on this and probably not Yahoo.
2007-05-22 10:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by Dot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋