something wrong with me liking a 16 year old is this wrong
2007-05-14 19:16:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on if the girl acts younger, older, or the right age. If she acts more mature then it would be more natural. There are some people who are 10+ years apart in their relationships but are much older than the 16 - 21 thing.
Just wait until she's 18 though so there's nothing with the law.
2007-05-14 19:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by mosquitoe_13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you liking her. You are only 5 years apart. However, those years are at a critical juncture in your lives and 16 yr olds think differently than 21 yr olds. If you like her you have to go very slowly and give her space to go out with other guys and figure out what she wants. If you did do something sexually with her, she would later resent you for taking advantage of her youth. Good Luck.
2007-05-15 02:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by gogogirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"is there something wrong with me liking a 16 year old?" Do you REALLY have to ask that question? Are you REALLY that intellectually challenged? My daughter used to be 16, at one time I was 16...I can tell you both of us had very little in common with anyone who was 21. What I can see "wrong" here is that you are severely immature for your age. You need to find some "kids" your own age to play with.
2007-05-15 02:21:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes you need to get with girls your around your own age, last but not least even if you do not have sex with her, taking her out on a date or just kissing her is grounds for arrest for "contributing to the delinquency of a minor" or even statutory rape if the DA in the state you live in is strict enough.
Unless you want an extended stay in Jail where you will get the chance to become some older hairy dudes 21 yo "girlfriend" . you should consider just how much liking this 16 yo could do for you... Of course if you did end up in jail, just think.....you will know what statutory rape feels like....lol
2007-05-15 02:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brother,
Listen, she is 16 years old and i have heard the song and she looks fine and ready,
However, if you have any physical contact with her it will ruin you life big time, I am not talking about the 5 years you are going to spend in a fed pen, or the parents of her wanting to kill you.
I am talking about you and how you are just going to give up yourself for 30 minutes of pleasure.
It took you 21 years to get where you are, so for 30 minutes of pleasure you will give that up?
2007-05-15 02:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by skulty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is normal - the girl could have qualities that you like. If she is pretty, nice, and gets along with you then you have every reason to like her. The only thing that separates her from other nice pretty girls is her age - its ok to like her, but you can't act on it yet. Remember, she is young and therefore is probably immature in relationships - at her present age, she is not mentally strong enough to have a relationship with an older boy like you. Just have patience, because she WILL turn 18 one day and then you can pour chocolate all over her or whatever your fantasy. Good Luck
2007-05-15 02:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Safari G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think so. As long is true love however, if you want to go the next level, you may need to be responsible enough, hope you get what i mean. I have seen couple dating as young as 16 or 17 years old but manage to keep their relationship till mid 20s before settled down.
2007-05-15 02:23:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this day and age, many teenagers look older than they are, but you have to remember that she is 5 years younger than you...If you don't want to go to jail you should think long and hard before you do anything to jeopardize your freedom. Since you are 21 go out with some friends and meet someone your own age that share things with you, not someone in high school.....to many women in the world.....
2007-05-15 02:22:55 · answer #8 · answered by misty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all dont say that on line cuz u dont whos on, and there is nothing wrong with that, f@#k age its just a #, you'll never know how far u can go with love.u have nothing 2 lost when like some1, but make sure the law dont know. PS dont let any1 know but her. it can bit u in the ASSSS hard.
2007-05-15 02:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by godc280 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an age gap there. You can legally party in a bar and she can't go with you. She is in high school and you are not. Is that fair to her if she dates you? You are an adult and she is not. Would her parents have a problem with a relationship with her? I think you already know the answer.
2007-05-15 02:29:14 · answer #10 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋