well its more than a booty call, i mean i care for her as a person and a friend. So more like friends with benefits. and she doesnt wanna be that anymore what should i do?
2007-05-14 18:27:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She wants a relationship, and I'm not really looking for that at the moment. I love all the ladies in the world. For those that answered, all of your answers are great. i wish i can choose all of you for best answer.
2007-05-14 18:40:41 · update #1
I would find out why she doesn't want it. If it is because she is looking for something more and you don't want that then as her friend you need to let her go and find someone who is looking for what you are looking for. Good Luck!!
2007-05-14 18:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you consider this girl a real friend and truly care for her, then it's best to respect her feelings. Did she give a reason? Maybe deep down she wants to be more than a booty call. Or maybe she knows she can't move on to a meaningful relationship with someone else as long as she's being your booty call. Either way...I'd move on and find another friend to be the booty call! Hope this helps!
2007-05-14 18:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by dreamersg04 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think of he's a jerk. He purely needed intercourse. From what you reported, you moreover would purely needed intercourse (i've got not got emotions for him anymore, i'm purely drawn to him). in case you now not choose to be a booty call, purely tell him, 'hey, i'm not fascinated now, or interior the instantaneous destiny, yet as quickly as I ever replace my concepts, i'm going to enable you recognize'. you at the instant are not pals. Yeah, pass on. If he's as lots of a participant as you recommend, he could be notably advantageous approximately it. A participant would understand which you need to in actuality choose a booty call in a 12 months ... or considered one of your human beings ought to.
2016-11-03 23:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol. Sorry, I'm not laughing at your question. I'm laughing at the added details. You are such a flirt.
Anyway, most girls do eventually want to settle down. If you aren't ready to settle down just yet, don't tell her you will.
Just be honest. Tell her most of what you've mentioned here in your question...you know, that you really care about her and value her friendship but that you really aren't interested in being in a committed relationship right now...with anyone! (make sure you let her know it has nothing to do with her personally).
If you want, you could even add, "But if I did want to, trust me you would be at the top of my list." I don't know, it's cheesy, but we like to hear that stuff.
Alright, that's all I've got for ya. ;-)
2007-05-14 19:12:57 · answer #4 · answered by JenniFire 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
either tell her you want it to be more than a booty call, maybe thats what she really wants too. OR, find some one else.
2007-05-14 18:32:47 · answer #5 · answered by christen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er, well if you really like her, ask her out, but if you don't, then find a new booty call...kinda common sense there dude.
2007-05-14 18:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked her why she doesn't want to be that anymore? Is she bored with it by now? Does she have feelings for you more than a friend? Or perhaps she wants to settle down with a real boyfriend, other than you? Whatever it is, you two should discuss it and go from there..........
2007-05-14 18:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her do anything she doesnt want to, so either live with it or find a new booty call
2007-05-14 18:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well most girls want a RELATIONSHIP and don't wanna be a "booty call" or "friends with benefits"
2007-05-14 18:39:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cardinals Rock! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then, find another friend with benefits, you dumbass. Friends with benefits can call it off any time they please, and you have to realize there should be no feeling between you two. Since you say you care about her, then tell her. Things like that can happen.
2007-05-14 18:32:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋