How do you get your boyfriend to understand you need more attention in the love-making category?

Question

I know men want to just get down to business for the most part--and I'm all up for this. But every once in a while a person needs to feel that there's more to sex then just "sex" (if you're in love). Please give some advice that could work...I've tried talking, but I guess what I've said hasn't gotten through. What can I say? We've been together for almost 2 years and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me....I love him but am afraid eventually I'll need more. HELP!!

Answer 1

just be honest and spit it out in a nice way. most guys like a little direction

dont wait till after and criticize, show him what you want

Answer 2

Try a nice romantic dinner, candlelight and all. Have the bedroom set up with candles, oils, creams, Champagne or wine and some strawberries and whipped cream.

Tell him that tonight he will have to follow your directions.

First tell him that he has to take a shower while you prepare the table. When he comes out, have the first course, on the table and you in a nice negligee. Tell him to sit and eat. Tell him that at the end of every course you will remove a piece of clothing, and dessert will be served in the bedroom.

I think that you can handle it from there.

Hope you enjoy. It worked great for me.

Answer 3

what i would do is after your done just dont say nothing and roll over and cry but try not to let him here you intill your nose starts running and then he will be like whats wrong and be like i dont feel loved.and when you dont feel love do thesame thing but you dont have to cry.how do i no because i have the same problum.and some nights i just give in and i hearts i dont no what els to say...

Answer 4

Communication is key. Let him know you need a little more time to get ready than he does... if he's not retarded, he'll get the hint that he's just not getting you off.

Answer 5

You've made a mistake having sex with him.