Long story short: I studied in Mexico last year & met a man who I dated for awhile. The distance got hard after I moved back to the U.S. & we didn't talk for 3 months. While this was happening, an ex dropped through my town on his way to a job in Canada. After visiting me, he abruptly decided to stay in the U.S. & now is talking about moving to be with me. Now the guy from Mexico is back in the picture & he has expressed interest in us moving to the same location (I have been really wanting to return to Mexico City to live for awhile).
I'm scared & confused because I love both of them & I don't know what to do. I don't want to lead either of them on, but at the same time I don't know who to choose. I don't want the one in the U.S. to move here if I have feelings for the other guy. And I still want to move to Mexico eventually anyway... The one in the U.S. is like a best friend to me, but the one in Mexico adds passion to my life & makes me laugh a lot.
What do I do?? I am so torn.
2007-05-14 17:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should choose THE MOST CONVENIENT FOR YOU.
Your ex showed more interest in you because he stopped by to look for you and he wants to move to your place...but the mexican talks about YOU MOVE TO MEXICO...
I would choose the ex despite I am mexican myself.
2007-05-14 17:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl read you own writing. You answered your own question. The one in Mexico gives passion to your life and makes you laugh, which also mean happy. Althou you care for the boy in the US as a very dear friend and possibily past lover that relationship is over as far as the love thing goes. Go to Mexico and be happy. Invite the boy from the US to Mexico for a visit once you are together with your man.
2007-05-15 00:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by lake5756 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you have answered your question yourself.You have to ask yourself why is your ex suddenly back on the scene? You say that you only like him as a friend,so maybe you should clarify your true feelings and let him know that you a trying to move on with your life,and that you are willing to be friends as you have feelings for some-one else that you have met.No-one can really advise you on what you should or should not do,because not everyone are the same.But I suggest that you should do what you feel is best for you,whatever you choose you know will be right for you.
2007-05-15 00:48:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3-some
2007-05-15 00:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nuge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is easy ..the one that makes your heart flutter is the one you should spend time with and be with...do not lead the other guy on..it just involves more feelings, bigger heart break and problems..you play with the guys heart your really not feeling..there can be some bad consequences..
2007-05-15 00:36:39 · answer #5 · answered by livenature 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Its not like you have a commitment to either one.
2007-05-15 00:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play them until you feel one more than the other. That's how they do it; don't be feeling guilty either.
Just do it!
2007-05-15 00:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have a three way
2007-05-15 00:34:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋