its really scary. I dress the complete opposite of skanky. I were long skirts, no cleavage, i dress like a lady i guess. but just about every guy teacher that i have had (well, the ones in their 20s-40s and i hope it ends there) have said something implying that they find me attractive. Something like i need too meet you mom (like i dont know what that means.) do i unconciously flirt, smile too much, what??? because it really creeps me out and i dont want to have to encounter a bold one when i go off to college.
2007-05-14 16:20:24 · 23 answers · asked by Candy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id say do your teachers... i do mine
2007-05-14 16:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
i started having that kind of trouble when i was 13. i wasn't even "developed" or anything and i dressed pretty conservatively. i was always told i was mature for my age. just avoid personal moments with them, keep everything about your school work. and the best thing to do if they DO get inappropriate is to let a female professor know what's happening. if the teacher's just made you uncomfortable with something they said, just tell the female professor that the male professor does things that you feel are inappropriate. and don't feel bad for saying something
2007-05-14 16:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by Xander and Marie's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if they find you attractive. It is probably a compliment and that is all. You dress like a lady expect to be treated like one. If they have not put any moves on you other than a comment then you are taking it wrong.
2007-05-14 16:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by having too much fun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a place to draw the line, but as long as they're just giving you compliments it's not a problem. Maybe you're a very good looking person. Don't make too much of it unless they're pressuring you or being suggestive.
2007-05-14 16:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be a figment of your imagination playing tricks on your mind. Can't someone compliment you without you twisting it into something foul? People have been accused of molestation because someone got the wrong impression. As long as they're not putting their hands on you or asking for your phone number and stuff I think you need to Chill.
2007-05-14 16:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your teachers probably like the hard to get type. Maybe you should dress kinky and flirty then they will go for someone else. Or they will come after you more. Either way things will change. But never NEVER do anything with them and try not to give them the wrong signs. Also if i were you i would report them to your principal or if you feel you have to the police. But do not put up with it if you feel like it's a challenge.
2007-05-14 16:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Might have to just don't smile too much or maybe a little. That guy is probably a flirt period. If he is theres nothing you could do about that. I would just say don't be alone because things happen.
2007-05-14 16:25:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you look older then the other kids...
It must be really weird.. to be in that situation :X I had a teacher a year ago, he was absolutely beautiful. I wouldn't have minded that hahaha
2007-05-14 16:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by j12 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the way you carried yourself enticed them in some way. Any other reason is that they are a bunch of perverse men.
I hope you're not lying on anyone either.
2007-05-14 16:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you misinterpret their responses to you. Perhaps "I need to meet your mom" is a roundabout way of saying "I'm not interested in you, jailbait, stop flirting with me".
2007-05-14 16:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Zasu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because they're old, and no offence, I think it's good, but long dresses are probably attractive to them. Either that, or you are just thinking that.
2007-05-14 16:25:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋