And since this place is my home away from home, or inside i should say I'll ask you guys.
I have my first girlfriend at school. i have never had one at school before and i'm not sure how to act, can u help me?
2007-05-14 15:53:36 · 21 answers · asked by StrongTower 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
be yourself, that's part of the reason the girl likes you in the first place
2007-05-14 15:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by Sulfol1 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Darlin -
There is a quotation I fell in love with in Jr. High School that I decided would be my blueprint for how I wanted to be... It was often very hard to do - but always worth trying:
"I shall pass through this world but once.
If, therefore, there be any good thing I can do - or any good thing I can show, let me do it NOW.
Let me not defer it, nor neglect it - for I shall not pass this way again." --Etienne de Grellet de Mabiller
If you don't mind me giving advice from the perspective of my faith - just remember what 1st Corinthians said about love... NOT a standardly "human" kind of love - but a respectful Godly kind of love for all persons... If you put these things into practice - you will be a wonderful person, not just a great boyfriend!
1st Corinthians 13:4-8a Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail. Love is eternal.
Can you imagine having friends that operated that way? Wouldn't it be great? So try to apply these things to your life and you should have a wonderful relationship.
Peace.
2007-05-14 23:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by Depoetic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How Can I Avoid Getting Involved With the Wrong People?
> What Kind of Friends Are Good?
> Friendships Among Fellow Christians
> Friendship With the Opposite Sex
http://watchtower.org/e/20050822/article_01.htm
You *Can* Remain Chaste in an Immoral World
http://watchtower.org/library/w/2000/7/15/article_01.htm
What's Wrong With Premarital Sex?
- What Fornication Includes
- Serious Threats
> Learning Self-Control
http://watchtower.org/library/g/2004/7/22a/article_01.htm
(For more info, or, when a URL becomes modified.) http://watchtower.org/search/search_e.htm
2007-05-14 23:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be your normal usual self.
If she does not like that, why put on an act?
The worst thing in the world is for you to put on an act, the girl likes the act, then you get married, and eventually she figures it out that it was all an act, then she wants a divorce.
Be yourself.
You want to spend your life with a girl who likes to be with the real you, warts and all.
And yes, the same advice goes for girls.
Pastor Art
PS: Ignore the advice from the Watchtower guy. The Watchtower is the official magazine of the Jehovah's Witnesses and I'm sure you don't want to get mixed up with them.
2007-05-14 23:07:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this really isn't the right place to ask that question , but i'll answer you're question according to this category. ask yourself why do you like this girl. if the answer is cuz she's attractive. then you are a fool. God has made someone especially for you. all you need to do is read the bible daily and you will become perfect. once you are perfect you can start searching for a girl. God will guide you to the right girl. and you will stay with her forever.
2007-05-14 23:02:47 · answer #5 · answered by N E G R O P L E A S E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. tough one.. just try not to run into any poles walking backward or anything.. don't try to show off.. you'll get hurt twice.. once by the object you hit.. and once by your new girl laughing and walking away with another boy.
2007-05-14 23:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Tom♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be yourself, but be mindful that your not them and that you think differently, accept them for who they are and try not to let anything your friends say influence you and NEVER kiss and tell.
2007-05-14 22:59:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Have a little trust in yourself. And most important: NEVER CHEAT ON HER.
Good kid.
2007-05-14 23:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by David G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, just don't be an a**. But you are a teen age guy, and we can't help it. Yeah, I know you think you can. But it won't last. Been there.
2007-05-14 23:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe know one answered this! That's not right! I would suggest listening to her and being honest. Good luck honey!!!
2007-05-14 22:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sage B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋