This summer I've come to realize how all my friends have boyfriends, which is great, but this summer I have absolutely no time (studying to get into medical school).. and in the times that I just want to relax, I honestly have no one to talk to. I'm feeling so lonely, and friends just don't seem to cut it sometimes.
What should I do? >> by the way, a guy that I talked to that made me feel special has now dissipeared it seems. I havn't talked to him in a month.
2007-05-14 15:51:29 · 11 answers · asked by mellei 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find something fun to do by yourself (skating, bowling, billiards, running in the park, free weekend festivals, etc.) and talk to the people that you meet there.
2007-05-14 15:55:19 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hie Miller. Well to me for you to feel up your4 lonely, there are many ways for you to do so, like if you are tired of studying then try to hear some soft or light music while you are studying or having a break. Besides you can also go online and check out some new cool things like the latest fashion clothes or something which really make you feel to see about it, you can also watch televisyen when you are dine with your studies, by that way it can really kill your time, or try to call your friend whom made you special then you go out for a drink or just have a walk at your garden in the evening. Try this hope it might help you..........
ALL THE BEST.......
2007-05-14 23:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I went through that I just had to find things that made me happy. Try new hobbies! If you have a myspace dont spend hours on it because your bored, find a season of a show you enjoy and buy it! Make phone calls to people you dont talk to alot! Family was the answer for me! When you have a spare night plan a themed party, like a pj party (not like a slumber party lol) Its always fun to plan things:) Just do what makes you happy!! Guys come and go! He wasnt right for ya!
2007-05-14 22:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello,
i have similar problems, just think of it this way you'll be the one driving a corvette, and they'll be the ones riding a bike, you'll be a doctor, they'll be working at mcdonals, you can watch tv, listen to music, go to public places on your free time just to be around people/see people, all the friends i have use me, i see no one as a true friend, everyone only cares about themselves, but think of how good your future will be, never give up, or quit, follow your dreams...you can find guys after your an accomplished doctor or whatever,''don't count your chickens, until the eggs hatch''. if you waste your time on guys, you might not get a second chance in school, try to prioritize, hope this helps, have a great day! :) good luck in your future...
2007-05-14 22:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
WHatever you do, do not go out looking for THE THING to fill your empty void. Why? Because you will peobbaly get the total opposite of what you are expecting. Though you are looing for someone to spend some quality time with, there are no many BAD and WRONG MINDED people out there looking for a good cirl to corrupt. It seems like you have your head on straight, so I say, pursue your career and HE WILL COME. Just when you least expect it, you will just walk into a good place to have good time with that good someone you just met, while just simply being and doing GOOD!!!!!! Fill your voind by enjoying yourself and your life and HE WILL COME. I promise.
2007-05-14 22:57:36 · answer #5 · answered by notablewoman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
pamper yourself & learn to enjoy your time alone. It's not all d time that your friends will be there... there really are times like that when you'll feel so alone especially that you plan to go to med school. soon life will get busier for you (in med school, you'll sacrifice a big part of your social life)... and it will be your turn to be out of your friend's reach. for now, find something to do by yourself which can make you relax... try not to think too much about your friends being out of reach. it's just a phase & it will pass...
2007-05-14 23:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by rogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want your friends to be there, sometimes we need to make an effort to keep relationships...
or find a hobby...a new sport will keep you fit and maybe find some new friends, do you play any musical instuments ? sometimes i find myself playing for hours and never getting bored of music...or perhaps you like writing stories/poems ? or spending time with your pets...
there must be something that you enjoy doing and makes you feel good about yourself ? or you could be my friend im in yr12 too lol ok hope i've been some help to you
2007-05-14 23:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by ` crystal tears . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act how you have in the past. Maybe get a scheduler and you can plan times for you to do stuff for fun and when to study. This way you can probably still have time for a bf
2007-05-14 22:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone feels the way you do at sometime in there life , I believe that everyone must have time to themselves in our society we rely on people friends etc to amuse us and we have to learn to do this for ourselves and you are learning to do this :) and its a good thing ! go see a movie listen to music ,dance alone in your room crazy !!! Don't be worried you will make more friends with age and they will be close good friends with age comes mature life long friendships !! just study hard and get what you are working hard for ... after that life will change for the better !!!
2007-05-14 23:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by yoursandmine05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to music, lay back, and close your eyes
2007-05-14 22:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋