what do i do?

Question

i constantly think about commiting suicide and im really young. someone im close to wants to help me but im scared to tell her everything because bad things will happen. please help!!!

Answer 1

your friend who wants to help you...do you really love this person? how would you feel if that person killed themselves? would you hate it? feel bad? be angry (yes you would), think what a waste of life?
Well that goes for you toooooooo....the world is a place that needs everyone...you have talents and specialties that you have not discovered about yourself...that we need you to share..and what about your kids? don't say you don't have any...I'm talking about the ones that are waiting to be born to you...how about your parents and family do they diserver this thing that your doing...how would you like them to be thinking like you...what would you do for them to keep them from feeling this way....dont' go to just your friend....go to your family...or doctor...or really great teacher....or priest/rabbi...dont' just sit on the internet letting us all know with nothing to we can do to help you...also call the hot line and talk to someone...suicide is a waste of a great spirit... dont' throw yours away...its not the answer...it will help nothing...
oh and many of us have lived with **** that hurt and mamed is in the heart...so dont' give up...go to your friend, no go to your family...there has to be a special person you know you trust and just go to them...let us know how you do okay?

Answer 2

oh wow, um last year I had a serious problem with friends and stuff and I almost committed suicide. I have never told my parents because I don't want them to judge me but I didn't want to be depressed any longer so I found help by talking to my aunt. We are really close and she helped me alot. I also went to a friend who had the same problem and we bonded and she helped me through everything and now I'm not depressed. I still feel down every once and a while but everyone feels like that. If there is a close relative that you trust very much then I would tell them, or maybe tell your friend. If you know you can trust her then you probably don't have anything to worry about. If she is your true friend she wouldn't tell anyone about something as serious as suicide.

Good luck, and please don't make the wrong choice :)

Answer 3

You need to tell somebody what has happened to you. You could go straight to the police, your pastor, the school counselor or principle or your favorite trusted teacher. Do not tell someone you do not trust. I'm glad your friend wants to help you but she/he is probably young too... and she might not know the best thing to do or who to tell what. Don't worry about if someone might get in trouble. You are young and suicidal... that IS NOT YOUR FAULT.

You may be observed at a hospital for a day... they are there to help you and observe. Or you might not. It depends on who you tell. But please do tell someone older. An authority figure. Not the wrong person... trust your gut in who you are telling.

I'm saying a prayer for you. Please get therapy... someone will pay for it, the law, or school, or someone... don't feel like it is selfish. You need to have a good therapist to confide in and let you express everything you have been holding in, and he/she will help you process through your thinking and develop a healthy way of thinking. It won't all come together quickly.

If you are at least 18, the best place in the world I could suggest in the Meier Clinic. They have several locations in the U.S. It changed me completely. I was severly depressed. It is a very thorough intensive therapy program, for 2 or 3 weeks, 8 am to 4 or 5 mondays thru fridays. It is expensive but some qualify for half off, I did.
meierclinics.com

Answer 4

It really is simple. Worse things will happen if you don't reach out for help.
Judging from your question, you are not happy about the way things are now. That means even if it is painful, you are at the point of making a decision--keep things the way they are or make a change. Which is better? Which will help?
Talk to a friend. Talk to a grown-up. Talk to a teacher or a counselor at school. Call a hotline. If you don't think you can talk about these things, write down what is causing you pain in a journal. Then show the journal to someone you trust.
It can get better. Just take a step at a time.

Answer 5

A person in crisis may not be aware that they are in need of help or be able to seek it on their own. They may also need to be reminded that effective treatment for depression is available, and that many people can very quickly begin to experience relief from depressive symptoms.

Let your friend in on the things you are feeling. Don't go at it alone. Good Luck hun...you don't have to feel the way you are feeling. You can get help! Treated and be back to normal again!

Answer 6

hi please dont commit suicide!!!!!! God loves you!! I think alot of people think about doing this when they are down and going through a rough time. I have even thought about it myself. But i guess its pretty common when your feeling the weight of the world on your shoulders. Some people lives look great on the outside and not as picture perfect on the inside. Thats how I veiw the world today, it helps to know sometimes that your problems arent the worst problems

Answer 7

I'm no psychologist but it's' really important that you talk to someone about what you're feeling. If you're afraid to talk to your friend, you can call the hopeline 1-800-784-2433 www.hopeline.com, it's anonymous and they should be able to help you get on the right track to getting better.

Please don't be afraid to get help. You don't need to live with suicidal thoughts, and you shouldn't have to. There are so many people out there who want to help people like yourself.

Good Luck! I'll keep you in my prayers...

Answer 8

I'm not going to try to council or tell you what to do, because I have no training. What I can do is give you a couple phone #s that you can call. These people have been trained and many have had similar feelings. Please give them a call.
1-800-suicide (1-800-784-2433)
1-800-273-talk (1-800-273-8255)
I hope this helps,
You Are Loved

Answer 9

I know I am a stranger, but there are people who care about you out here even if we don't know you.... You have a friend there who is willing to help if you let them in and talk to them. There are also numbers to call like crisis hot lines and they will listen for as long as it will take to help you!
I know it seams like something you will probably never get through or you feel like no one knows what you are going through, but we do and I can sympathizes with you. We are all here to help you and I want to thank you for turning to someone before it was too late, and we are here to listen as long as you need us too!!!!!!!

Answer 10

go see a professional. You sound like you have anxiety depression and possible OCD.
You need serous help. You might be bi polar and get really impusivle feelings. Take this serious. This is your mind and body telling you there is something wrong.