virginity..?

Question

when is like..a normal age to lose your virginity. im just wondering..im going into highschool, this is kinda something i need to know. girls, help..please

Answer 1

there is no "normal age" to lose it, if you are in a commited relation ship and have considered the risks then it happens when it happens .........i thought i would wait until marriage but things happen and i lost mine when i was 16 youll know just be sure to be care full and know as much as possible about sex and what happens..... im almost 19 now and with the same man.....we've been togeather since i was 15 we dont have any kids yet and we are very happy!!!

and no im not saying go have sex just to do it im saying that if it happens it happens but be carefull and all these people who are totaly against it are lost in the past times have changed and teens do know what they want but be sure its the right thing ....if you have any doubts about it at all dont but if and when you do be sure you have him tested for any stds and be sure to use proper protection

DON'T GIVE IN TO PEER PRESSURE

Answer 2

There isnt really a specific age.. Most adults will say OMG your so young.. dont do it, wait until marriage, or thats just way too young to most people even if your 18 they still say it sometimes. lol. A friend of mine lost hers when she was 9, and most the other people I know around 14-16. Its all on how ready you feel when it comes up. Dont do it because others say everyone is doing it, or you should, dont let anyone ever make you feel like there is something wrong with you if you dont want to do it, or anything like that. You will know when the time is right.. Everyone is different, and is ready for sex at different ages. There is really no wrong age if your ready. I mean yea 9yrs old is too young, but once your a teen, and you know all about sex, how to avoid catching stds, or getting pregnant(example: use condoms), and understand the risk if you arent safe then your on the right track, but if you are easily persuaded to not use condoms, or cant talk to your boyfriend/girlfriend about the fact that nothing is going to happen unprotected then you arent ready, thats part of the whole pressure thing. There is no excuse anyone can give for not using protection, and when your still in your teen years, and decide to go all the way you need to take care of yourself, and not let anything happen that can mess up your life, or future, its too young for you to end up catching something from a partner that could have been avoided if you are careful, and too young to be having kids when you havent even got yourself through school, or have a steady job so you can afford the expenses that come with having kids.. If you understand all of that then you are mature enough for that kind of relationship, and will deffinetly know when your ready, and the time is right.

Answer 3

There's no normal age. I've known of many girls losing it at a variety of different ages.

That being said. Remember that you want it to be special. You will change a lot in the next few years and change even more after you get out of high school. Don't settle for less than the best and what you deserve.

I waited a year with my first boyfriend before I lost my virginity and I still regretted it later. We were together for 5 years, but then we broke up, and because he was my first it hurt very badly when we split. Just make sure it is a special and beautiful moment with someone that really truly cares about you.

Consider waiting til you find the person you want to spend your life with. That way you have something very special to give that one person.

Just a thought. Hope this helps you. :)

Answer 4

In my opinion, losing your virginity is not something you need to do in high school. Because there are so many teens who are sexually active, you can easily contract a venereal disease (syphilis, genital herpes,... otherwise incurable sexually transmitted diseases) or have an unplanned pregnancy (or both). Do you really want (you or your baby) to live a life of uncertainty? No job, no money, little to no chance of a future... that's the kind of life people ask for every time they have premarital sex (and trust me, there's only so much a condom can do- and birth-control pills only reduce the chance of pregnancy (and they have side effects), they can't prevent it).
Think about who you want to be or what you want to do in the future, and think about how you'll be able to do that with a baby or crippling disease before you're able to graduate from high school-- Few people can, and very few people actually do--. Everything after that moment will be high-maintenance; anything can happen in one short moment.
Think about it before you act.
Besides, there are so many people who will take advantage of you and leave you at the first sign of an undesired result. Don't let anyone ruin your future for you. No child deserves that (both parent/partner and offspring).

Answer 5

You are ready to loose your virginity whenever you feel your can fully answer the question "If something happens, Im ready to take on having a baby". Also start taking birth control about 2 months before having sex and it should be mostly safe. Beside all of this, I lost my virginity summer going into Junior year in high school. Now here I am the end of Senior year pregnant with his baby because I stopped taking birth conrtol. Nothing is ever for sure.

Answer 6

There is no "normal age." It all depends on you. If you're just going into high school, though, chances are that your body is only just a couple of years into puberty and is nowhere near physically ready for the sex act.

Beyond that, it's really how mentally and emotionally ready you are for this. Don't do it because you want to be cool, because you are curious, because you want to prove how grown up you are, because your friends have (chances are they're all talk and no action), or because your boyfriend wants you to prove your love for him. Do it because you are ready for the experience YOURSELF, and because you understand the consequences of losing your virginity: damage to your reputation, STDs, hell to pay if your parents find out, and --of course -- pregnancy.

Answer 7

Just the fact that you need to ask this question means that you are far from ready to have sex. I am a sophomore, and there are very VERY few people in my class that have had sex already. Trust me, if you have sex just because you want to be cool or fit in, you WILL regret it and be seen as a total slut. Conversely, if you really care about someone and visa versa, you are the only one who knows when you're ready. You can be fifteen or fifty, nobody but you can tell you when it is the right time for you. I will say that if you are planning on having sex, you really need to get educated about protection. The AIDS virus is twice as deadly as it was fifteen years ago because of the formation of the super-strand - so stay safe!

Answer 8

There is no set right time. Don't plan to lose it. Just do it when your with someone and it feels right. Your instincts will let you know when your ready. Just make sure you keep condoms with you on every date. Don't be afraid to tell him your a virgin. If he's sweet, he won't push you. I lost mine at 17.

Answer 9

In general, up to a point, the longer you wait, the better. If you go with a guy at this age, he is likely to tell everyone who will listen about his "conquest".
Wait till late in high school or until you are at college. You are much more likely to be with a more respectful quality guy by then.

Answer 10

I lost mine at 18 , my best friend lost hers closer to 20, then i had some that lost it before they were 16. Its all when you Think your ready. Just know that no matter when you lose it be prepared for everything that goes along with it.