2 weeks ago i just moved into my apt, and there is this really cute girl that lives downstairs from me. I see her when i get in from work when she is goin to work. We have spoke to one another twice. What should i do to get her attention or to get to know her more to ask her out? Thanks I honestly think that she is the most attractive and beautiful girl that i have ever met, which is why I would love to get to know her better. What is the best way to go about this?
2007-05-14 13:16:58 · 15 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On a Friday late afternoon (not nighttime--too suspicious) bring down a 6 pack of beer and ask if she'd like to have a beer and relax from her week. If she says yes, you can go to what she does for a living, etc.
2007-05-14 13:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Phartzalot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and buy her some flowers and a card on the way home from work. Write her a little note on the card telling her that you think she's beautiful and you'd love to get to know her better, and leave your phone number. Give her the flowers as you pass in your apartment building!
2007-05-14 13:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by ♦Hollywood's Finest♦ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out casually to a large-group situation. For example: "Hey, me an a bunch of my friends are going to the mall on saturday, we might catch a movie or sumthin, you wanna come? You can bring some of your friends if you want." or you could invite her and other tenants from your building to dinner in your apartment as a kind of get together thing. Keep it light and casual, get to know her, and then take it from there.
2007-05-14 13:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by jbdrummergirl93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...bake her something! That is the cutest thing I can think of! Especially since you guys are neighbors. Just bake her something and bring it over there. Then she may invite you in and you guys can talk a bit. Then you'll get to know her better. But remember: DON'T RUSH THINGS! There's nothing scarier than a guy that asks you out right away without feeling that they know you first.
Best of luck!
2007-05-14 13:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by Little Miss Smiley :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her! Every time you see her, say hi. Help her carry groceries if she has just come back from the store. Ask her about work. Get to know her, and she may like you! After you get to know her, ask her on a date! If you guys like each other, ask her to be your girlfriend! Send her flowers, teddy bears, and candy. She'll love it! Good luck!
2007-05-14 13:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by goldengirl33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok definately dont get her some flowers!! if you havent asked her out dont get her flowers.it would be to soon. invite her over for coffee and cake as a hello thing so its not really a date. then you can talk and get to know her better and prgress to a date!
Good luck!
2007-05-14 13:34:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cute cute cute! okay so just talk 2 her more, maybe call her up for coffee b4 work... no creepy sending flowers thing yet.... just work on getting 2 know each other... don't wanna scare her off!
ps. ur avatar looks sorta scary.
2007-05-14 13:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by *smile* =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be shy just ask her if she would want to go out for pizza or watever u like to go if she says no then just take it easy theirs many lady out there for u.
2007-05-14 13:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by StR@wBeRRy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, since you've already spoken, try asking her to something you and her have in common, like a restaraunt with your favorite food or something. You should try to do things on your own after.
2007-05-14 13:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by A.J. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would like it if i was the girl id want the guy to come down there and give me a hello and talk about where i was from dont be too forward
2007-05-14 13:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋