OK,here's the deal. I'm insanley in love. But that guy (brad*) is kinda away right now. I get lonely sooo my friend introduced me to another guy (*jacob) Well, Jacob and I got into a friends with benifits relationship.......now he claims he wants more than that and realy likes me. here's the problem: I promised Brad another shot at "us". An I think Jacob just likes my bod,not me. But he doesnt want to end our f.w.b. relationship even if he can't have a chance to be more. But i feel wrong using him. And what about Brad?! HELP! (*names have been changed)
2007-05-14 11:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i really like this saying because i have leaned from it :)
Never leave the one you love for the one you like because the one like will leave you for the one they love!!!!
2007-05-14 11:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frist off how old are you ? If you are a minnor and have no children by either of these men then explain to both how you feel. This is called being in an open- realationship. Here is the down side to this both guys might think you r a slut, but if they really like you and have any feelings for you other then sex then they will appriecate your honesty. The other bad thing is this open-realationship is you can't go all PHYCO when dudes/dude decide to see other females got it?
2007-05-14 11:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kathrine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I think whoever you choose is fine because i don't think "Jacob" just wants your body because if that was true he wouldn't even ask for more than that because with experence i know if they just want that all they will ask for is that and wouldn't go through the trouble of a relationship so pic whoever you feel is best for you and more in tune with you ..
2007-05-14 11:42:12 · answer #3 · answered by Roxey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really curious would you mind sending me a pic of yourself? my e-mail is winnnvrlose@yahoo.com.......stop whatever you got going on with this guy jacob and wait for brad stop using this guy jacob or the longer you wait the harder it will be.
2007-05-14 11:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump jacob and give brad a shot
2007-05-14 11:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch Jake, Brads your man!!
2007-05-14 11:39:19 · answer #6 · answered by The shadows girl... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grll stay with brad dont go with jake if he likes u for ur bod thats jacked up!
2007-05-14 11:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by MiZZ. AL3XiS "YOU KNOW" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are insanly in love with brad . you shouldn't want any one else/ if you can't be trusted when he is away then he will never trust you//
2007-05-14 11:38:34 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell both guys the truth & let them know how you feel about each one of them. They'll decide what they want. You
must respect their decision.
2007-05-14 11:37:52 · answer #9 · answered by lizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who do you want to be with? That's the only answer that matters. It doesn't matter who likes you and wants to be with you it matters who you like and who you want to be with. That's the one you should pick.
2007-05-14 11:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋