I have a big, round booty. I am about 115 pounds. I am latina and 20 years old and about 5'7 tall. I have big boobs and a sexy face. That is really what all guys pay attention to on my body. Why? Why cant they see me for who i really am instead of my gorgeous body, I mean I am sexy as hell.
2007-05-14 10:57:33 · 13 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Oh Boo hoo hoo for you. Would you rather be flat as a pancake, no butt, 160 lbs, built like a post, face like a car-wreck, and hair like a fright wig? Oh and you're sexy as hell too? Poor thing. How about if you had a limp, and tourettes instead?
Look around you Princess what in the Hell have you got to complain about, do you see the girl there in the wheel chair with the whithered legs, open honest face, bright eyes and engagaing smile - how about trading places with her? No?
OK. How about the sister over there? Yeah the one in the purple and black spandex outfit - (well - mostly in it - holy cow she must weigh 450 lbs - kinda looks like the Michelin Tire Man in Designer Spandex, and chec out that nasty weave - there must be a 1/4" of dust on that hairdo; and that acne - "can you say "pizza face"? - How about taking her place?
No?
OK, check out the latina chick by the door - yeah that's the one - the "Little Madonna" such a pretty face, and that long beautiful jet black shimmering hair; falling across those creamy smooth shoulders - nice figure too - right down to her delicate tiny little feet. What a vision of lovelyness. Oh here comes her "Man" - see that big red-headed butch lesbian bull Dyke in the biker Jacket & black jeans & motorcycle boots? - Yeah the one jacking-up that football player up for his wallet - that's her.
You know what Little Sister, if you weren't so stuck on yourself, you'd see that you are not "all that". Oh yeah - you're fine enough alright - for some home boys, but how many of those rich boys have taken you home to meet momma this month?
I'll bet you seem to attract a certain kind of guy - mouth-breathing, crotch grabbing, tatooed, foul mouthed, losers - you're what my Granny would call a "Bum Magnet".
Friday Nite. Now don't get all offended - think about it - maybe I'm wrong. But a lot of times beautiful young women - who just want to be "normal" , dress hip, be with their friends, hang out, and go to all the places where their peer group goes to - wind up creating an image to someone outside of their peer group - as a "party girl" to put it mildly. Hip dress becomes "dressing like a whore". Dancing to popular music - all out - becomes "obscene and lewd gyrations", Having drinks with cigarettes with friends becomes "A Drunken Orgy of Booze and pot smoking all night long". And because you are popular - you're right in the middle of it all - having a great time, and all the while YOUR evening may be diet cokes, no cigarettes, lots of dancing, a 3:30 am breakfast with two girlfriends, and home alone, and i bed by 5:00AM.
So what you're dealing with is perception, - other peoples perception of you. You have to decide if you want to continue contributing to that impression, or do you want to try to change your behaviour to change other people's perception of you, - or just enjoy being you - and to heck with what other people think.
I think the problem is their's not yours, but that's just me. Good luck, don't take yourself to seriously, and thank god for what you've got, things can ALWAY's be worse..
2007-05-18 11:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I realy feel your pain. I was called barbie doll in high school and I had one boy from my class that would always come up to talk to me. He would just look at my chest and he never looked at my face. The only think I can tell you is wait till your older and gain waight. I am thirty three years old now with three kids, one ex-husband and one wonderfull husband. Things wont always be like this. I'd do this though- try dressing down some and putting glasses on. You can get window glasses now at the mall. I can still see and feel the guys looking at me even now that I'm older. I very pretty but I do think the guys are nuts when they look at me. I have three kids! I would realy try dressing down for a day or two. You might even buy a wig of a different hair collor. Now that I'm older I wish I had done this.
2007-05-22 13:56:35 · answer #2 · answered by Rochelle N 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you flaunting? If you are, then guys figure you are "easy". If you are "easy" then they are only going to like you for your body. It is one thing to have a healthy self esteem, but entirely another to be vain and haughty. Dress modestly and make sure you are not flaunting yourself or acting in a seductive manner. Stop looking so hard, and the right guy will find you. If you are self respecting to yourself and body and dress respectively, you will get the respect you want from guys to get beyond your appearance and get to know you. If you spent as much time building the person on the inside as you do on the outside, your true beauty will outshine your physical beauty.
"Beauty if fading" it will not last forever, and what you do now with your life and how you behave with guys and what you put out, will last a lifetime. Get yourself under control.
2007-05-21 22:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should guys pay attention to anything but your body, when you don't? You didn't mention anything but how sexy you are. If that's what you put out, what else can guys pick up? Try offering a man something else. If you offer a personality, conversation, and self-respect, and he only sees sex, then you have a complaint. But, now it sounds like guys are biting at the bait you set out so...what's the problem?
2007-05-21 21:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by erin f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a thought...u are describing and reminding us that u are sexy as hell!! which is great...
but are u also like this when u are hanging with guys..
ur confident about ur body and it seems like u probably flaunt ur body like "yeah i know im sexy and i can flaunt it" (cuz u can) but that really doenst help guys to focus on any other features..cuz we know most men have a one track mind
just be aware of your body language an how much u reveal when u dress
2007-05-20 08:33:32 · answer #5 · answered by ivy582 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One clue: because guys of your age-range are horny as hell.
BUT all you're doing to explain your problem is describing your external features....big, round booty, big boobs, sexy face. And you're sexy as hell. Is this all that there is to you?? Girl, I'm not hearing you brag about your humor, intelligence or accomplishments.
If you can't make those features shine then how do you expect guys to notice them??
2007-05-14 18:06:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry T 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
maybe it is because you are so full of your self and shallow that there just isn't that much more to you. I mean really, " Why cant they see me for who i really am instead of my gorgeous body, I mean I am sexy as hell" you never once said one good thing about your personality, all you talked about was your body. If that is all you value of yourself that is all guys will value you for.
2007-05-20 20:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by icanansweryourquestions 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
awwwwh. Poor girl. I feel the same. But if you keep lookin, i am sure the perfect guy will appear. Patience is a prime virtue. Hang in there sexy. I wish i could meet you. God bless. Gosh aren't we guys such big pigs. oink oink lol.
2007-05-21 13:15:35 · answer #8 · answered by Runner08 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously you have nothing else to offer than "big boobs, a sexy face, gorgeous body, and sexy as hell". You seem so preoccupied with how you look, you failed to mention who you really are. Stop asking such petty questions, and use your common sense.
2007-05-14 18:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
you sound like a b**ch, maybe that's why guys can't see anything, all girls have bodys, I'm skinny, with big boobs, and a nice face too, but I have a personally, go get one, then guys will like you :)
2007-05-21 13:18:31 · answer #10 · answered by preppylilkitten 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋