2 weeks ago i just moved into my apt, and there is this really cute girl that lives downstairs from me. I see her when i get in from work when she is goin to work. We have spoke to one another twice. What should i do to get her attention or to get to know her more to ask her out? Thanks I honestly think that she is the most attractive and beautiful girl that i have ever met, which is why I would love to get to know her better. What is the best way to go about this? Thanks
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2007-05-14 10:35:05 · 16 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just talk to her. girls like that. (if she's feeling you she will) Don't bake 'er cookies; she'll probably think you're gay. next time you see her, just make small talk if she doesn't look like she's in a rush and hope it develops from there or simply ask her if you can take her out sometime. don't come on too strong though, because she will need to be intrigued by you. good luck
2007-05-14 10:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
. Well I would ideally like the guy to just show nice gestures and small talk and maybe just ask if I would wanna hang out one Friday ro Saturday night after a few weeks of "small talk"... like go catch a movie or something really casual in the area. It's easier that way. I wouldn't want something too formal, especially with a neighbor b/c if it doesn't work out, the last thing I would want is to feel ackward in my own building and have to worry about seeing someone.
What I wouldn't want him to do is like come knock on my door-- that would freak me out. So just "purposely" run into her and continue being nice, small talk, etc...in 2 weeks ask her out!
Well good luck!
2007-05-14 17:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by eMteMind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, just start talking to her. Ask her how she likes the building, apartment, etc. Then you can ask her where she works, If she's going to school, and so on. Make sure you listen to her, very carefully, she'll tell you things in answers that you can use to ask her more about. It's pretty easy to get people to tell you about themselves and the more she tells you the more she'll comfortable with you, then you can work on making the relationship closer by finding areas that you have in common - always bring these up later! That will help spark active communication and make it easy to ask her out later to do something you both love.
2007-05-14 17:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Harleygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first find out if she has a boyfriend if she does then she prolly wont go out with u but if she don't comment her girls like to be commented they want to know that they look pretty find out her interest like where she works how old she is after that u wont be to shy about talking to her again when u see her again ask her when she has a day off and take her to play pool or bowling don't go see movie cuz u use two hours of her time watching a screen rather then getting to know her more if u play a game together u can talk while playing
2007-05-14 17:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by tuqir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like you are out of something - say like sugar and then tell her you have noticed her as is leaving. Then perhaps ask her where she works and then just go with the flow. Hopefully you will find a common ground from there.
2007-05-14 17:41:33 · answer #5 · answered by Su-Nami 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a girl, but the easiest way I believe would be to just talk to her and ask her out if you feel that it's the right thing to do.
Better than coming up with an elaborate scheme to come into contact with her ;P
2007-05-14 17:39:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jimbo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby,play it smooth.you sound like a great guy.just be you and when you bump into her again just ask her if she has a boyfriend if no, then ask her out on a date.while your doing that let her know you think she is the most beautiful girl you ever seen and would like to get to know her better.believe me it work for my boyfriend and we now are together for 3 yrs ever since.
2007-05-14 17:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by mizz Applebottom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her exactly what you just typed to use to read. Tell her how you feel, and depending on were you work you might want to think about doing when your not n your work clothes. If your to shy to tell her in person try writing a letter or ask her to go on a walk with you to the park or for coffee. BE YOURSELF
2007-05-14 17:40:57 · answer #8 · answered by Destenflea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start up a conversation with her like "I'm new her what's there good to eat" then invite her to go with you. Or just don't beat around the bush and ask her out
2007-05-14 17:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by *AntA mAriA* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should ask her to hang out sometime since your living by one another so you might as well get to kno each other and it doesnt have to be anything really big just like go for a walk or to like a cafe sorta thing
2007-05-14 17:44:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweetchevelle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋