I'm a 14 year old girl who has VERY disturbing sexual thoughts. I've told a few of my friends, but they all say all teenagers go through this but i dont think so. It's starting to ruin my life. i cant keep a boyfriend without pressuring him to do sexual things with me. I cant concentrate on anything for more than 5 mins. without being distracted by the thought of sex. I learned to masturbate at 11 and to my knowledge that's VERY abnormal. I just need to know if i actually am addicted and where can i get help. Thanks, this means so much.
2007-05-14 09:36:03 · 5 answers · asked by B.O.N.A.F.I.D.E. 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
If you can control your actions than your ok. But if it is starting to cause problems in your life and these sex acts are starting to control you, you defenitly have a problem. Please talk to your parents and if that is going to be hard to do talk to someone you trust. How about a school counsler? An adult who can point you in the right direction to get the help you need. Please get some help hon, I'll be praying for you.
2007-05-14 09:47:13 · answer #1 · answered by Leneki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are very concerned that your thoughts are disturbing, tells me that you know that you are doing things that you shouldn't be doing. You are probably a very sexy girl, and some of us are born with a stronger drive than others...that does NOT mean, that you have to go out and sleep with everyone, and that is where you are going to be headed honey, if you don't put some control into your life. Now you know, that the Good Lord doesn't want you to do things to yourself, either,..and that only makes you want men more....I think that first, you ask God to forgive you and to help you be the person you want to be, and pray for strength in this..through Jesus...and then, go and talk to the school nurse, a female, and not a man councelor,...and maybe to mom also. The more you talk about it, and the better you are going to feel when you stop...and I know that you want to,..God Bless honey, and remember that you are sinning when you do this, no matter WHAT anyone else here tells you to do...I am not going to LIE.
2007-05-14 17:04:38 · answer #2 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just being overwhelmed by all the hormonal changes that you are going through. Relax, and don't pressure anyone, wait until you are more mature, and have found a really good match.
2007-05-14 17:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you are young leave the boys out of it keep masturbating..it could be just a phase my gf was like that but she was still a great friend..plz don't get boys involved..
2007-05-14 16:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by tequila_mama1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly normal at your age to be aggressive,if you want to know more feel free to contact me.
2007-05-15 03:08:55 · answer #5 · answered by mommy anie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋