How do I tell her that I love her? and after i turn 18 How would i go about the relationship?
2007-05-14 07:40:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her parents know about it and they say its fine, and also this inst a Sexual thing.
2007-05-14 07:46:18 · update #1
Kay so! I'm pretty sure you really do love her, and I think you should stick with it. DO NOT GIVE UP!! You'll regret it later. If she doesn't want a serious relationship then she'll let you know. As for age..what does age matter when you really love someone? In my opinion it doesn't...You should really tell her you love her...if you don't you'll regret it later.
2007-05-14 09:27:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean....I don't know. How do you know you LOVE her? She hasn't been here long enuf for you to truly know. She still has a lot of changes and growing to do. Sex is outta the question at 14...she doesn't even know how to emotionally handle it yet. You may wanna take ur time with this one. It's good to have a good friend to talk to and stuff and maybe in a couple of years if you or her are still around together you can look at taking things a step further....but remember when she does turn 16 u r going to be 19 and of age...she still won't be. Good luck.
2007-05-14 14:48:14 · answer #2 · answered by Chen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think that you should atleast hang out with her before just going up to her and telling her that you love her. Once ya'll get to know each other better...then possibly ask her if you can meet her parents. Try to get on the good of her parents. I've been in this situation and well...that's all the guy did. He met my parents and he also respected me. But I think you shouldn't have sex with this girl until she is ready..and well just incase not to get her pregnant. When you turn 18..just keep on doing what you're doing. Meet her parents and let them gain trust for you! Good Luck!
2007-05-14 14:49:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you go about a relationship? Easy- don't. 14 is way too young for you to be dating. She is still very young and has a lot of life to experience before getting tangled in some scandalous relationship with an older guy. Let her date boys her own age.
2007-05-14 14:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Phoenixsong 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love her, you will have to give her time to grow up and not pressure her. Age is not a big deal, but it is when your young like that. Just treat her with respect and if you are dating her, then I don't see the harm in telling her you love her.
2007-05-14 14:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man, i'm sorry to say it, but u need to leave her alone. Its one thing that ur 3yrs older than her, but in love w/ her? A girl her age does not need boy drama. Thats just too much to deal with.
2007-05-14 14:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by mindy s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be really careful to let her grow. It is way soon to lock her into a serious relationship and she needs to decide what she wants.
I would stay close but don't start anything physical yet. It isn't fair to either of you.
2007-05-14 14:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouild just tell her that yall need some time apart and that you'll wait on her if you are that in love with her and don't listen to what nobody else say and things and if she loves you she would tell you to wait to if i was your girl thats what i would do but im 19 and i fell in love with somebody who was 15 and i waited for him to turn 16 and we started going back together because if you love them you should wait on them
2007-05-14 15:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
her parents will kill you to find out.. you seriously better not have sex with her and i think you should stop the relationship until she is at least 16 if you love her that much youll wait for her..
2007-05-14 14:44:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude go for someone your own age!!!
Vin
2007-05-14 14:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋