my ex is forcing me to do things on webcam... hes been trying to make me for the last hour and i keep saying no and he keeps saying that if i love him id show him stuff... i feel so scared and im in tears on the webcam... i have a history of what is saved in the conversation.
is this grounds to go to the cops for sexual harrassment?
2007-05-14 07:16:06 · 48 answers · asked by xxredjumpsuitxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you just log off?
2007-05-14 07:18:24 · answer #1 · answered by LB 6 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Yes I would say it's sexual harassment! I'd stay away from him! you should never let anyone force you to do something you don't want to! I'm a little confused is he there or is he somewhere else making you do this? If he's there that yes call the police if not it's simple don't get online with him. If he is not there how can he force you to do anything?
2007-05-14 07:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Misty Lane 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody should make you do things that you do not want and yes its harassment and go make a police report.
Stay away from him. Get rid of him fast !
Be careful now gal as he can save whats on his webcam and blackmail you , if not now it can be perhaps ten years down the road so RUN !
get rid of him and quick !
2007-05-14 07:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by aunt_webby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you said this is your ex. So if he is an ex you have already told him that you no longer love him.
Second if you don't want to be on cam then turn it off and you are no longer on it.
Third there is an ignore button so if you don't want to talk with him then hit ignore and you won't have to.
lastly. If you are an old enough lady to be on cam. Then you are old enough to handle this without help. Just tell him bye and move on. Then if he continues to harasser you call the police. But first just stop talking to him.
2007-05-14 07:21:29 · answer #4 · answered by Jim 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How does he force you to do things if he's you're ex? What does he know on you that you can't log off? If he's not physically there, He can't make you do anything. Now if he's harrassing you via internet, then you can get him for stalking. Contact your internet provider and if that gets you nowhere then contact your local law enforcement. You may want to change your screen name so he doesn't know it. Good luck to you
2007-05-14 07:25:46 · answer #5 · answered by hooeypoohey1957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay he is your ex he cant make you do stuff that you dont wanna do and yes that is sexually harassment so tell him no in a mean way and move on with ur life and find a new one..juss get off the computer then ignore him thats the best thing you can do
2007-05-14 07:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes call the cops and stay away from this dude. You notice he for you to do those things if you love him but do you think he loves you? I dont really think so because if he really loved you, he wouldnt ask you to do things that you wouldnt want to do. I say best thing to do is move on and stay away from him. Yes, maybe you love him but maybe that feeling is not mutual, dont worry there is someone out there for everybody.
2007-05-14 07:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Miguel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea i think its sexual harrassment, dont do it! dont show him anything! Hes your ex yea you may still have feelings for him but not ness love him otherwise you would still be dating. Make sure you dont show anything because it is really easy to print screen and he is then able to save it on his computer and if the wrong person looks at it, you dont no what could happen. Just be careful!
2007-05-14 07:20:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I get alot of requests from men in the mid east for me to cam with them. I tell them how it is, and if they want to go on a hissy pansy fit, then I let them and I tell them to F**K off..I block and delete them. Men from mid east and india are controlling, it is ALLL about control, caz they feel threatened or infuriour.
Ditch the prick, he is your EX for a reason RIGHT? Lose him NOW, block and delete. HOW is he forcing you? He is on the other side of the computer, not with you, beside you...
I have blocked people wanted to cyber sex...I hate it when men demand cam after the first 2 sentences, and like I said they are mostly from the mid east or India.
2007-05-14 07:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sympathise, but: is it fair to bust him for what is clearly an inability to say no on your part?
He's pushing his luck, and knows it, but he's presumably expecting that if you really don't want to you'll switch off.
You sound as though you're hypnotised. Perhaps you are simply unable to disobey instructions. Here's an instruction for you, then:
LOG OFF AT ONCE, AND DON'T ALLOW CONTACT FROM THIS PERSON AGAIN!!!
I shall be VERY DISAPPOINTED AND ANGRY if you don't obey me!
CD
2007-05-14 07:23:14 · answer #10 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure about Sexual but it harrasment.He is your Ex get away becasuse he is not right in the head.Love does not force someone to do things they do not want to.
2007-05-14 07:20:40 · answer #11 · answered by Dew 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋