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2007-05-14 07:09:04 · 27 answers · asked by kelly_tennisace 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP him. If he doesnt believe you and doesnt trust you then you need to find someone else.
2007-05-14 07:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in a similar situation but I am not in your shoes. I am in your boyfriends shoes. I have enough reasons to believe he has cheated but not actual proof. It makes it real hard from my end. So, here is my advice to you. Granted, I am not professional I will tell you what I think. You should look at the relationship. Have you did anything to treat him bad? I know with my current situation my boyfriend has not been affectionate with me and even recently hit me. I will go hours without being able to talk to him or get ahold of him and I have no idea what he is doing. Do you see what I am saying? Has he tried to contact you and you have been busy and just ignored him? Have you possibly failed to treat him like you should? I would try to look at how he feels about it all, however in the end you need to look at how you ulimtately feel. Do you love him and want to be with him or would you rather let it all go? If you have been treating him great and not let him down any then you may want to consider otherwise. But try to explore what has lead him to believe this. Maybe you both could come to a mutual understanding. Trust is a big thing. Goodluck
2007-05-14 14:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by CheerList 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it doesnt sound like he trusts you and relationships are mainly built on love and trust. Ask him why he thinks you would sleep with someone else, as you love him and wouldnt want to destroy the relationship. Also if he sees you speaking to another boy he may get jealous and start to say that your cheating on him just because your talking to a mate thats a boy. Its up to really do you think that he will ever trust you if not then dont you think you should end it as it will be like this throughout the relationship.
2007-05-14 14:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently there is some trust issues you guys relationship. The best thing for you to do is work on rebuilding the trust that was lost...And furthermore, a guy is not going to accuse you of something if you dont give him reason to. So be honest with yourself, have you cheated or thought about cheating
2007-05-14 14:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf doesn't trust you you need to get out of the relationship asap! Relationships are built on trust and if the trust is already gone and neither of you are willing to work on this, it's not going to last. You will save yourself lots of time and emotional stress if you realize this now.
2007-05-14 14:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by KFC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really there is nothing that you can do if he insists you did something when you didn't. I am sure you have tried your best in convincing him. What does he want to do? Is ending the relationship for something he insists you did when you didn't? If he wants to end it, that's be sad because he will have lost out on someone very special.
2007-05-14 14:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Belinda O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he doesn't believe you. Then ask him why he thinks he can't trust you. If you don't have trust and respect in a relationship, then you have nothing. If he can't trust you, then it's time to move on find someone who will. Good luck to you.
2007-05-14 14:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by hooeypoohey1957 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oo that rele suxx..
well, look at it from his point of view...are you spendin too much time talking to other guys??
or
ask him why he thinks that and tell him you will do anything to prove you didnt (only say this if you mean it)
just show him you love him and tell him you always want to be with him and that youre not a bad person and that if he thinks you cheated that means you dont love him and youre a bad person..just tell him how you feel and tell him youre willing to take a lie-detector test..if you can find one, lol
GOOD LUCK HUNN
2007-05-14 14:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by brittany f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him if that doesnt work remove his misunderstanding by making him talk wid the person mentioned and if that doesnt work take him to ur bedroom after a romantic dinner and have a blast
2007-05-14 14:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing you can do, but quit being so friendly with other guys! Wouldn't it be better to stop having sexual intercourse with boyfriends and save it for your husband!
2007-05-14 14:13:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋