why is it so hard to find a boy friend
2007-05-14 07:06:50 · 24 answers · asked by BabyLeo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because most guys are concerned with how you look and if your skinny enough and all that jazz. Those are the guys you just need to ignore. I felt so miserable that i couldnt find a boyfriend and then, after months of agonizing over it, i quit thinking about guys and settled down to be myself. Not long after, my boyfriend (who had been my best friend for 5 months) asked me out...and we've been happy for 7 months now! Just forget about getting a boyfriend and kick back...someone will come to you...thats the way it works.
2007-05-14 07:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by Snap Skittles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of boy friend are you looking for? And where are you looking?
Everyone wants to be with someone but right now, you have to be patient and not settle for nothing less than the best for you. Maybe during this time that you are waiting for a boy friend, you can find happiness within yourself so when he comes along, you can add something special to his life.
2007-05-14 14:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys always turn up when you aren't looking for them. Just go out with friends and hang out and one will find you in no time.
2007-05-14 14:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not hard finding one its just hard finding a good one.
2007-05-14 14:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps your looking in the wrong places. Granted that finding a guy that only wants to be with one special girl is a rare find these days. Try not to be so picky...I mean be picky...but not toooo picky.
2007-05-14 14:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard if you set your standards to high, but thats sometimes a good thing if a girl (woman) sets them high because you wont be as disapointed with your self! Keep looking hes out there somewhere
2007-05-14 14:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by Megan N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because well i know i be getting really picky when it comes to boyfriends so maybe thats wa or its just you havent found the right man. But dont worry you will find him.
2007-05-14 14:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Janai L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find them as friends first,
then see if you have a connection
with one of them.
If guys are young, sometimes they
aren't ready to have a girl friend.
They just want to hang out.
You see them standing around. :-)
2007-05-14 14:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll answer; if you tell me why it's so hard for me to find a girlfriend?
2007-05-14 14:13:45 · answer #9 · answered by Diamond24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably trying too hard. Just dont be so desperate and they will come to you.
2007-05-14 14:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋