A friend calls and invited you for a trip to after she already has made all the arrangements. She is taking her child and friend along also. I am wondering am I obligated to pay for the room?I did fill a tank of gas
2007-05-14 06:46:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
If you aren't prepared to pay for the room, don't go at all.
It sounds like she may pay your way, but you should not expect it. It would be rude on your part not to offer (and intend) to pay for the room.
Definitely pay for your own food and split costs on whatever else is appropriate.
2007-05-14 07:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by tcdrtw 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she invited you, you are not "obligated". It's a good idea to find out who is paying for what BEFORE the trip. If this is causing a problem between you and your friend, pay up. You don't want to lose a friend over a few dollars.
2007-05-14 08:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by CT2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her straight out. If you have to pay for the room and you don't feel like it's a good deal, then say sorry you don't want to go. Be frank and let her know you don't take no sh*t.
2007-05-14 20:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the two flow Dutch on each thing or artwork out an contract that certainly one of you will pay for food on an identical time as the different will pay for gasoline. of direction, one may be greater costly than the different so splitting each thing down the middle is greater user-friendly.
2016-12-11 09:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should at least offer to; who knows maybe your friend will say "no need, I got it covered". If you dont at least offer to help pay, your friend might have a worse opinion of you.
2007-05-14 06:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by BravesWings 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if you agreed to go unless your friend specifically said all expenses paid then you should pitch in on all costs.
2007-05-14 06:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by b_furbee21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Expect to pay. Unless she says "its my treat".
2007-05-14 08:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should pay your fair share.
2007-05-14 06:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um id say u should idk if u need to me presonly would pay for myself
2007-05-14 06:49:36 · answer #9 · answered by Pawel 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋