he hasn't been with anyone else during this time is that normal
2007-05-14 06:22:11 · 24 answers · asked by moon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not normal, but if he's a Christian, I can understand. Christians believe sexual intercourse before marriage is a sin - it's also dangerous for STD's and unwanted pregnancies! Maybe he has a STD and doesn't want to give it to you and cause you to be sterile.
2007-05-14 06:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's normal for some, but you don't have to put up with it. Maybe he is gay, or if you are a guy he could be straight. Doesn't really matter, he isn't what you want. Even if he gave you what you want, it's doubtful he will continue or reach the level you require. Just find someone that meets your needs, not everyone is meant to be together.
2007-05-14 13:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't having sex with you because of "moral" or "religious" reasons, but simply because he doesn't want to, then there's a good chance he enjoys your companionship, but is not in love with you, so the best thing would be to ask him straight forward where he sees the relationship going in the future and if he doesn't give a clear answer, then find someone else. You may be surprized at his honesty if you approach him directly.
2007-05-14 13:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by gumsy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because he doesn't want to have sex with you doesn't mean there is something wrong with him. Maybe he doesn't have casual sex. Just reverse the scenario from you not wanting sex with someone you have known for 2 years, and he does. Now, are you gay or not normal?
2007-05-14 13:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is. Sometimes, we guys just don't want it. It's nothing out of the ordinary. It could be a case of him being celibate. He might've had a bad experience in bed or something. Either way, you guys need to communicate. That's the only way anything will be resolved.
2007-05-14 13:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by Shadow 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A guy that doesn't want sex huh, no that's not normal. He probably has issues with being inadequate or low self-esteem. Try talking to him, sex isn't everything, but, it can make or break a relationship.
2007-05-14 13:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey I think you need to speak to him about it and figure out why is that he doesn't want to have sex.
Don't just come to conclusions unless you find out the reason why is he acting like this.You really need to speak to him about it and only then conclude things.
2007-05-14 13:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by rhea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not for a normal hormonal teenage boy. but maybe he has been gettin some and you just dont know. or religion. Talk to him and ask him why and see if you can persuade him
2007-05-14 13:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by nicoley oley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u know what i think he is cheating because he dont wannna have sex he must be having sex with someone else that should tell u i would break up with him cause hes not giving me what i want what he in your house 4 clockblocking.
2007-05-14 13:29:44 · answer #9 · answered by carlisha w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what do u mean by hanging out ? r yall dating? maybe he dont see u that way maybe he wants to be ur friend
2007-05-14 13:26:43 · answer #10 · answered by SUGAR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋