2 weeks ago i just moved into my apt, and there is this really cute girl that lives downstairs from me. I see her when i get in from work when she is goin to work. We have spoke to one another twice. What should i do to get her attention or to get to know her more to ask her out? Thanks I honestly think that she is the most attractive and beautiful girl that i have ever met, which is why I would love to get to know her better. What is the best way to go about this? Thanks
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2007-05-14 05:34:34 · 5 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just have to ask her out, but before that you can try asking her questions about nearby shops or borrow something from her (maybe you even get invited when you go at her door), ask questions about neighbors, etc. I think it would be a good start.
2007-05-14 05:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, the best way to get to know someone is to just conquer your fear and talk to her. Tell her that you think she is pretty, women love to be told things like that. Even if it turns out that sh'e not interested in you like that, you will have put it out there and maybe, at the least, you made a new friend in your neighbor. (Also, keep in mind, friendship is the best way to start any kind of romantic relationship! It could still happen down the road!) You'll never know what could be unless you face your fear in talking to her...Good Luck!!!
2007-05-14 05:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, use the fact that your new in the neighborhood and ask her if she can recommend some good restaurants or lounges or bars in the area and when she tells you, ask her which is her favorite of those. When she tells you that ask her if she would like to go with you since you really don't know anyone around there and would be more at ease if she went with you and so you wouldn't have to be there alone. i f a guy approached me this way, and I were( i am by the way) single, I would say yes. Its a good start and inconspicuously hides your romantic intentions.
2007-05-14 05:41:30 · answer #3 · answered by candyred1999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Next time you talk to her, just suggest getting together sometime, or invite her up to hang out one weekend. Just something casual. Don't make a big production of it, just mention it, and leave it an open-ended invitation.
2007-05-14 05:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Amber M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accidentally-on-purpose run into her somewhere, and ask her if you can buy her coffee or chai or something. we all love coffee or chai.
2007-05-14 05:38:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋