we were on a date and he said his son(age 6) is really the perfect kid. He then, like 2 minutes later said how his kid is just like him. A little mimi me. He only sees his kid 2 days a week. I think hes egotistical and needs to spend more time with his kid, since no child is "perfect." Would you stop seeing someone like this?
2007-05-14 05:09:26 · 16 answers · asked by joy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a mother of 2, and KNOW my kids are great, but not perfect!
2007-05-14 05:14:29 · update #1
that his head was up his a$s
2007-05-14 05:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
No! Why stop seeing him because he thinks his kid is perfect? And he gets to see him 2 days a week and wants to see him more? Stop seeing him? Are you crazy!?
First, every parent thinks his kid is perfect, especially when describing him to someone else. They're the smartest, most talented, most creative, most well-behaved, etc. But we all know (and like you said) that no kid is perfect.
Second, he's taking responsibility for his kid which sounds to me like he's a stable, responsible person (assuming he pays child support) and enjoys assuming that responsibility.
2007-05-14 12:18:16 · answer #2 · answered by Survivors Ready? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Regardless if he sees his child for 2 seconds, it's good that he even thinks of his child in that way...What, are you looking for some one who as a child, but at the same time doesnt see him/her at all, so they could care less if they child was a mini me or perfect in away.
Come on now. Stop looking for fault in the man. If you dont want to deal with him because he has a child, then say so. But dont try to end it because he praise his son. Hell, if you dont want him send him my way. I would love to hear how perfect his child is along with every thing else about him..
2007-05-14 12:16:20 · answer #3 · answered by plumprump26 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is truly in love with his child. What a nice thing for a child to have, someone who thinks they're amazing!
I'm sure that he still sees his child's faults, but, maybe, just sees them as lessons that his child still needs to learn.
If you don't like something about this guy, enough that you don't respect him, you should certainly stop seeing him. Why would you continue to date someone you don't respect as an individual?
2007-05-14 12:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by Maureen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow sweetheart, get a grip & get over yourself.
Regardless of how often he sees his son (it could be that the court order only ALLOWS him two days a week right now) he loves his son...and just like ANY parent...is going to say how wonderful his kid is...and show how proud he is to have a "mini me"...
being a parent changes you in ways you, obviously, don't understand. The guy deserves better than you....you should be supporting his love forhis child, not badmouthing it.
2007-05-14 12:14:20 · answer #5 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
he is proud of his child.. whas' ur problem? i have two kids and they are my entire world.. and yes i think they are perfect/ they are my children and a parent should feel that way.. sounds to me maybe you just dont' like havin to share the centre of attention.. of course no one is perfect.. but in his eyes, his son is the best nothin wrong with that.. rather have someone like that than someone who doesnt' give a rat's *** wha's goin on his kids life.. u the one with the problem.
2007-05-14 12:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by rootzgirl34 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you think it would be better if he DIDN"T think his child was wonderful? He sounds like a happy, well-adjusted person to me, and it also sounds like he has a loving and supportive relationship with his son.
I recommend you stop seeing him, he needs someone more positive and loving than you seem to be.
2007-05-14 12:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if we would date him, the question is, would you?
Most parents think their kids are perfect.
It doesn't seem you like him, though. So dump him and move on!
2007-05-14 12:11:59 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well he is a brag i dont blame him but i wouldnt dump him based on that unless if the words drove me up the wall however his disertations on women and his treatment of other pple would be the perfect basis to decide if ure going out with him or not find out how he talks to waiters,treats kids and other pple based on that id leave him
2007-05-14 12:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
anyone who is a parent thinks their child is great, that is the way it should be
2007-05-14 12:12:13 · answer #10 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah i would get well rid, hes full of it. No kid is 100% perfect all the time!
2007-05-14 12:13:41 · answer #11 · answered by ange f 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋