than guys my own age. I am nice to everyone and i smile at people heaps.But thats just the type of person i am. I am also very talkative and will talk to anyone about anything. Alot of men tend to see this as me being interested. Men over the age of 30 that is. i am not easy either. so why does this always happen to me.
2007-05-14 03:48:34 · 12 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LMAO... you must be one fine honey huh? You better stop smiling at all these older men. For a man that's married and horny, there is only one way he is going to take your smiles and he aint leaving his wife so you know what he's thinkin. ;-)
2007-05-14 03:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by bettercockster1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be because of the old statement....I keep doing the same thing over and over...why do I always get the same results? Get it? If you are only attracting guys over 30, then, maybe it's you. Maybe you need to change where you go, that is, don't go to places where only over 30 guys hang out. Go to where the guys your age hang out. You may end up finding out that you really don't like guys your own age. Or you don't like the things that the guys your age do. In either case, by looking at where you go and why you go there, will help you determine what you need to change, in order to attract people of a different age group.
It's sort of like the joke about the nurse who works at an old age home, and only meets people over 60. Then quits that job, but take another at another old age home. What would you expect to get other than more of the same? Instead of an old age home, go to a sports medicine facility, where most of the injuries are of younger men doing some sort of physical activity. See where I'm going with this?
2007-05-14 03:56:19 · answer #2 · answered by auditor4u2007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in your twenties it's probably because older men look for qualities more so than the other stuff. So sounds like you're an interesting person and that is attractive. It's the inward that is attracting first then the outward. Some people misconstrue this. Example, Man that girl was hot but her personality sucks...
See so you must have it goin on...
2007-05-14 03:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by VibiB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men over 30 still think and act like they are 18. They love younger women, because they're so easily molded...? Maybe because they're not ready to settle down? Maybe to boost their ego?
When they see someone like you who is talkative and friendly, they think you're mature because you're not shy like many younger women. You're approachable - not stand-offish like a woman would be if she were really interested in them.
I wouldn't worry about it too much. If you're not interested, you're not interested. However, you may want to be a little less friendly so that people don't think you're leading them on in some way...you never know who you're dealing with these days.
I was friendly like you are until I had problems with this stalker guy - someone who mistook my friendliness as interest. He was a major problem in my life for 5 years. He was very careful not to do anything illegal - the police couldn't do a thing.
2007-05-14 03:57:42 · answer #4 · answered by J F 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have the personality of a "man magnet." (smile) Don't take this as someting bad, you'll be looking for the attention from other man as you get older. You are beautiful outside as well as inside. Men can see that. Keep your head up and stay beautiful!
2007-05-14 03:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Belinda O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women are nice, talkative and smile, you are not unique in this regard. This is not why men are interested in you, talk about being self-centered.
The fact that you don't think you are easy is meaningless, it only matter if the men think so. I guess we have our answer as to why they are interested...
2007-05-14 03:55:47 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As a mature single man the answer is simply this; we become bolder with age. Our hearts have become calloused from rejection and we no longer fear it. We will show our interest in a woman regardless of her age if she interests us.
2007-05-14 04:33:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people can miss-interpret outgoing people. Be yourself and don't worry about the 30+. You will find the person you are looking for.
2007-05-14 03:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because when men are young,there thoughts are based on what they see,when a bit older it leans more towards personality,it very much depends on the person though,just speaking my experiance.
2007-05-14 03:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by Bad advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because men are idiots sometimes. You keep having your bubbly personality, thats there problem if they see it another way.
2007-05-14 03:51:16 · answer #10 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋