I am a straight man with a shoe fetish. I am also happily married to a woman who is fully aware of it. I have had this fetish for as long as I can remember. I mean it is hardwired in my brain and I can't get rid of it. I know, I have tried. I have spoken to psychologists about it, and they tell me that many people have fetishes, and that it is OK to enjoy it as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. Why are some people so disgusted by something like this? Why are guys with shoe or foot fetishes seen as perverted and potentially dangerous? In every major news story in the last several decades, I have never heard that the perpetrator of the crime had a shoe fetish. What is so bad about having a shoe fetish or a foot fetish? We do however give the best foot massages. Also, most men raise hell because their wife has too many shoes. Not me!
2007-05-14 03:30:28 · 20 answers · asked by Joe D 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't think that there's anything wrong with having a foot fetish .... but as you say .... as long as it doesn't hurt anyone else. It should also not interfere with your daily life such as at work or other public places.
There's nothing better or more relaxing than a great foot massage and if that's something you're good at .... kudos to you!
Some people are do take their fetishes a bit too far and if they are already inclined to doing crime .... then of course it would involve their fetish. Try to enjoy your lady's shoes in private and hopefully she will enjoy your interest in her new and old shoes!
You're right that there are people who think that this is a disgusting behaviour .... but they may have had a bad experience with dirty or smelly feet in their past. One shouldn't judge .... meaning that they shouldn't judge you and you shouldn't judge them either. To each their own my friend.
Enjoy ... and I'm sure your wife must consider you a kind soul (sole)! ; }
2007-05-14 03:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 00:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by prato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I am a straight man with a shoe fetish. I am also happily married to a woman who is fully aware of it. I have had this fetish for as long as I can remember. I mean it is hardwired in my brain and I can't get rid of it. I know, I have tried. I have spoken to psychologists about it, and they tell...
2015-08-07 10:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by Terina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see nothing strange about your shoe fetish. Seems your wife indulges you. This is wonderful. Human sexuality is diverse and the 'glue' that holds relationships together. Every couple has their own 'dance' and yours includes shoes. God bless both of you.
2015-10-13 21:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Correct, there is nothing wrong with having a fetish as long as it does not hurt anyone else and whoever else you involve in your fetish gives their full consent. It is when your reaction, whether it is sexual arousal or pure pleasure, comes as a surprise to the unexpecting that it can cause some discomfort, shame, guilt, etc in both of you. So be open and honest and accept their opinions, afterall, it is your fetish, not necessarily theirs. And remember, you have sole! .....erm...soul. *s*
2007-05-14 03:42:03 · answer #5 · answered by synocense 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with a fetish! They are very healthy and they are somthing to infactuate the brain. Sometimes people develop fetishes as a way to act out more sexualy with there partners as long as its something that you nor your wife mind then Keep it up its very healthy! People who find this disgusting maybe dont like feet for every 1 foot fetish there are 20 people who hate the site of feet there is somthing about them. I myself have dated men who LOVED feet and shoes and I have dated men who HATE feet ( keep them covered dont get them on me no i wont paint them kinda thing. Its all in the taste of people and i would say you like you do it! Forget others you are what you are and if you are happy BE HAPPY! :)
2007-05-14 03:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by brandi_23sc 2 · 8⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-26 06:15:07 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is a fetish anyway??
So you like shoes or women's feet, so what? Other men may like their breasts or butts? Is THAT a fetish?? Or is that something that MOST people like, so it's 'ok' and not weird??
The fact is, you like things about women, it just happens to be something that's not 'typical'. That doesn't make you weird!
2007-05-14 07:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 12⤊ 2⤋
You have already spoken to someone about it. I don't know why it would be bad either! Your wife does not care and she is the most important person to be concerned about. It's harmless!
2007-05-14 03:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ G ♥ 6 · 10⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-05 04:09:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋