i don't wanna talk to anyone.i dont know why.is this a bad thing?

Question

I dont want to talk to anyone.and dont know why..
I dont think i'm depressed cuz i'm motivated for doing other things.
but i just dont wanna talk to people,,,
people say "just dont"
but sometimes i have to talk and is really frustrating.
what am I supposed to do with this?

Answer 1

I don't like to talk much either, but it really just depends on my mood. The problem is that it can make a bad first impression.

Answer 2

Ok, so you don't wanna chat. But, question is: are you sure you NEVER want to chat? When you are doing those things that motivate you, do you talk to the people who are motivated by those similar things? Maybe, you are not surrounding yourself with people who share the same interests as you? Maybe you don't know what your interests are? Maybe your a "fussy" talker and there is only certain topics you find interesting enough to talk about? For some people, being outgoing is very stressful. ( Sales, and other social jobs are geared for very outgoing people, I think). There is outgoing people and people that are more inward. Try personality research to maybe understand yourself a little better. Also, when your in a uncomfortable silence situation, try to focus on what you can find interesting about what the person is saying or who THEY are. Try to wonder about them, and ask them questions. I know sometimes its hard because really, you probably don't want to, for the most part. Yet, I'll bet if you look into people hard enough you'll find something you can relate to and become excited about it. Then, perhaps, maybe...you'll want to talk. But, for the most part as long as you feel happy and your "reserveness" doesn't interfere with your daily life, then carry on and be happy. Don't worry so much about when your talking and when your not. Just be.

Answer 3

Dont close him up because of the fact if he ever does some thing he shouldnt he will tell all of it till now long. So in basic terms enable him talk. whilst youve had sufficient cut back the communique short by way of conserving yet another undertaking. because of the fact that he's a talker talk approximately some thing that he doesnt understand approximately so he can hear rather of working his chops. Congrats on the toddler yet dont sweat the small stuff.

Answer 4

I think there's a strong possibility you are depressed, but there could be other issues going on besides that. However, it is not "usual" that a person should have such an aversion to speaking.
Why don't you speak to a counselor or physician just to see what someone who has the ability to assess the situation more fully has to say? Then if they say you are not depressed and it's not unusual -- just continue not talking!
Good luck --

Answer 5

everyone has there own reasons for silence. i stopped talking for a year once because i was fed up with society..but that is another story. your motivations for not speaking determine whether it is a 'bad thing'. there are many out there who find purpose in themselves and find that they prefer silence over pointless conversations.(the kind in which people speak merely just to fill the silence). determine which situations you do feel comfortable speaking in and find out why exactly. depressed? if you are still motivated then you may be far from it(although who am i to say). there are times in this society in which you must voice your opinions so take confidence and use your motivations to power action.

Answer 6

Hello! If it is just your nature not to talk alot, that is definitely alright..people's personailty are all different. Some people are just talkative while other people can talk, will talk but not that often, about every trivial matter like others. But I think if you are not talking to your friends alot not because your personailty is perhaps like that but because of deeper reasons, you got hurt by them or something, then I think you should really sort these out. Hmm, all the best!

Answer 7

YES. Human beings learn to talk only because they are talked to when young.In other words , interaction with fellow human beings is a natural rquirement. You obviously do not mind talking through print.Speech is older than script or digitization.

Answer 8

No this is not a bad thing. Being alone and not wanting to talk is normal. You are suppose to let your doctor know how you feel and he or she may prescribe something for you.

Answer 9

It's always better to talk less, than talk too much. And this is always right no matter what people say.
Observe and listen more than you talk

Answer 10

1, you must go to our country to smile all day! And talk to another.!
2 You must go to any group about live !
3 sport,