How come my guy friends barely talk to me anymore?

Question

They used to call me on the phone, and we'd talk to easily together like I do with my girlfriends, not i'ts not the same.

It happened last time, with a guy i liked, I told him that last Christmas, he hasn't talked to me since, I'm still heartbroken over it. I loved him, but anwyays..
About this present.
his little 6 year old sister told him i liked him, and I didn't tell her anything, she told me he didn't like me, and never wanted to come back to my h ouse again, but she was over today saying he had a crush on me, i'm wicked confused.

what can i Say to him, without trying to push him away, like I did with my other friend?

Answer 1

Wow that could mean a lot of things. They could just be busy with something and don't have that much time to talk. But, it also could mean they're starting to like you more than a friend and are just shy about talking to you. I wouldn't worry too much. Girls will never understand guys and vice versa. If they don't talk to you for more than a week or so at all, then you can confront them to see what's going on.

Answer 2

I had the same problem
it could be that they were attracted to you
thats part of the reason they were friends with you
it could also be their friends made fun of them about it
if you really want to know
ask them
dont take nothing as an answer if thats what they say

Answer 3

Casual friendships can be contrary to the way men or boys think. If you're going out with someone else, that might be the reason.

I assure you, it can be rather insulting to be thought of as "a friend" and that's the last thing that many (or probably most) males want to be.

Answer 4

Did you start dating someone? A lot of times guy friends will kind of disappear into the woodwork when you start to date someone... it's helpful in determining who's a real friend and who just wanted to go after you.

Answer 5

Well i dont know any of the circumstances but sometimes when a guy gets a girlfriend the girl doesn't like him talking to other girls

Answer 6

As people get older, their interests change. I don't know your exact age and situation, but maybe the guys are getting more mature and don't wanna talk like you talk with your girlfriends anymore.

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Answer 8

Maybe they like you as more than just a friend??? Could ask them out sometime (as in friends) and talk about it.

Answer 9

depends on how old you guys are..if yall are getting into highschool then it's pretty tipical behavor for guys to detate from their gal friends to be with their guy friends and their girlfriend.

Answer 10

Tell him what's going on. Ask him why is he ignoring you.