Why in the world are guys so mean to you? I mean let's get real...I got these dudes that pick on me all the time. Does that mean they like me or something...that's a wierd way of showing it!
2007-05-13 14:20:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not really that strang in fact lots of boys do this to get your attention. He probalby likes you.
2007-05-13 14:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. Sometimes it is because they like you and others it is because they are just mean. First, are you asking for it by saying rude things to them to get them started. Or are you saying stupid things that all guys just love to jump on. If neither of these are true, it is possible that one or more of these guys might have a little crush on you. Guys in general are not good saying how they feel in boy-girl communications. Guys usually fail miserably, I know I always did. My advise is to not to take it personally and keep an outlook for star eyed stares from these guys. They might also feel less impaired apart from the guy bunch too. Remember just being nice never hurts anyone, in fact you might even impress others as well.
2007-05-13 21:30:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know. I mean I'd like to help you out in this situation but I need more details.....how exactly are they picking on you? Guys are wierd..I know trust me..Im a guy. But we can also be pretty mean...You should ask this question again...but give more details. Then I can probably help you out.
2007-05-13 21:25:06 · answer #3 · answered by Willie-D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend who picks on girls alot but he just does it for laughs because hes an idiot and doesnt care about others feelings. when i pick on a girl i am usually dating them and i just do it as an act of flirting. I never do it to piss the girl off or anything because when i pick on the girl i do it in a manner where the girl will laugh and stuff not get all huffy about it. but then again all guys are different
2007-05-13 21:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by kapuchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, it could be that your heads floating in the clouds and they think the best way to get you down to earth is give you a round of insults :P
It probally doesnt mean that they hate you, its more thats their way of talking to someone that they think is unobtainable (could be the way you act that makes them think that). They say you hurt the ones you love, in this case it could be true :)
I guess a better way to put it is the opposite of love isnt hate, if you dont like someone you dont talk to them, you ignore them completely. Dont take it to heart, just understand they are playing a game :)
2007-05-13 21:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not unless your 12. If they are mean to you it probably means they think of you as one of the guys instead of a girl or they just don't like you.
The other answer is you are misinterpreting the situation.
2007-05-13 21:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I stood on your toe, how long would you be in pain before you shoved me over? If you let someone be mean to you they will be ignore them or tell them off, if they do not leave you alone then say something to someone.
2007-05-13 21:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they don't care, then why you put their burden on your little and kind brain ?
If those duded are not kind towards you, they it doesn't mean that every guy on earth is careless ?
Find right type/kind of people for yourself.
2007-05-13 21:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys, in not knowing how to truly express themselves, have a tendency to pick on a girl... boys and some young men do this.... yes it usually does mean that he likes you...
2007-05-13 21:25:00 · answer #9 · answered by shadowwolf8932 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, they want to get in your pants. Play along and try to have fun with it. If they don't like you they will leave you alone eventually, if they do they'll step it up.
2007-05-13 21:26:03 · answer #10 · answered by Alex P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋