Do girls go for a shy guy that wears glasses? I know this is kinda like a question i asked before but...?

Question

iam 18 shy christian guy, who also wears glasses. I nor do i want someone who does alcohol, smokes, and does drugs. Looking for someone who doesnt go for looks, and wants a long lasting relationship. I for one can care less about sex and i am waiting till i get married, also body parts i dont give a crap about. Iam one of the shy guys that would tell a girl, she is beautiful and gorgaous by her natural beauty and personallity, no need for makeup or a tan, just beautiful without it. I havent had a face to face relationship. All of mine have come from online dating. Only way i can open up, iam shy around crowds and am nervous.i do show my nervous and blush, i never try to hide it. I cant wear contacts and i cant get lazer eye surgery. I dont really know if iam ugly, i think iam alright. I wish i was physically attractive, but again i could care less if a girl was or not to anyone else, just enough for me. Im wondering if any girls would go for a guy like me?

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Answer 1

Honestly just from what you wrote i would be interested. And dont worry about your glasses. Glasses reflect intelligence. Most young girls are shallow anyway. Youll see... When the time is right, when you least expect it a nice girl will come by and like you for you.

Answer 2

There are girls out there for you. My boyfriend and I have the relationship that you want. He's a shy nice guy who gets nervous in crowds and has to wear the occasional glasses (I looove it when people wear glasses ) We don't do drugs, drink or smoke. We're waiting for marriage and invest alot in peoples characters and personalities. We met in English class 5 years ago and have been dating for almost as long. We talk alot online because that's how we both can open up a bit more than we would in person. We are comfortable with each other to talk in person as well. We are quite happy and content.

So yes, there is a girl out there for you. Just gotta find her! Don't be discouraged by all the girls who put you down or glance over you. They are not worthy of your affection and couldn't handle such a sweet disposition. There are lots of shy girls waiting for that guy to ask them out, too. It's easiest to become friends first perhaps and nuture a relationship from that. Talking is key, make sure you talk enough to her to make sure she is happy with everything. Shy guys can tend to be too shy in a relationship and leaves the girl a bit in the dark about things.

Hope all goes well for you and don't give up! That special girl might take a while to find.

Best of luck!

Answer 3

I'm thinking none of them. Don't hate me, just listen. They know each other, and even hang out together. Guys talk... and if you are dating any of them the others will hear about it. Sorry, but you are in the friend zone. Anything you do to try and go past that will just make them feel awkward... this is not the right time. I'm not saying you can't have one of them... just wait. Time helps everything, and if you are always good to them you'll have a chance with your pick of the 4. But now is not that time... it'll just make things weird. For everyone. Focus on you right now. Figure out who you are and what career you want for yourself. Now is really the time for that. Guys will always be there, no need to chase them. Use this time wisely and enjoy being young. Hang out with you friends, play sports, be in clubs, take lots of pictures, be nice to everyone, never talk behind anyone's back or get involved in things that don't concern you. Let the guys come to you... later. Right now, you're busy learning about life. I'm 25, was a boy-crazy young thing once... and now I have three kids and a fiance. Life is so much more complicated, I would love to trade places with you and do it all over properly. Everything written was with good intentions and sincerity. Best of luck to you!

Answer 4

Hey I'm kind of like you, except I'm a girl. Everything you described describes me, and like you said I'm not into looks but somehow I know I've changed because I used to worry so much about looks but who cares as long as you know that changing your body image won't change the way you are then you are ok. Don't ever try to change just to get someone's attention because most likely they didn't see how you were in the inside just keep looking and one day the girl the God has for you will be there and most likely she'll be evrything you wanted because after all you did ask God for that person.

Answer 5

Hello:

In your age group 'looks' are sometimes held by many as a major criteria for forming a relationship.

Some hold on to this idea more than others. A mature person 'sees' the person from the inside out instead of from the outside.

You must be patient and seek those whom identify more closely with your relationship definitions and avoid getting into a lather with those not on your page.

You used the word 'Ugly'. This word means a million things to a million people just as 'Beautiful' does.

It is not important as to how others judge your appearance. What is relevant is how you see yourself beyond the way you physically look.

I know that it can be difficult not to judge ones own self on that cultural scale of ' 1 to 10' stuff.

Only a mature person does not use that kind of scale for themself or for others. The trick agian is to find and migrate with those who are on your page and evaluate others based on 'Who' they are and not what one looks like.

This is the time of life that you can benefit greatly from learning about the things that make you special....each of us are in one way or another.

When you do, learn to love who you are as the unique being that you are and you will then find that others will see those things in you as well.

You must spend some time to discover yourself before you expect someone else to discover you.

There are ways to do this, I'd be happy to tell you for the asking.

Follow my suggestions, there is where you will find love!

Smiles,
Anthony

Answer 6

Girls like to see confidence in a guy (but not *********). You sound like a sweet guy with his heart in the right place, so you definitely have that going for you. There are plenty of girls out there who are looking for someone who doesn't want them purely for sex, so just get involved with people. That will help you get over your shyness and will also get you to meet more girls. Give it some time :)

Answer 7

You need to fine women in church or the religion where they have to wear skirts and no makeup. Online dating doesnt count. you haven not a clue on a relationship yet.I would have friends you go out and do things with first and then take it from there. Many girls your age are too young to appreciate or be appreciated for whom they are. They are still influenced by Brittany, Lindsay, Paris, Scarlett, Aguilera and Duff

Answer 8

Some gurls may i dont i like my type (emo) but you just need to look for shy gurls like you or you could try to get a out goin gurl that could make you more outgoin just try somthin new dont be soo shy ;) .GOOD LUCK!!!! and not all gurls look for a physically attractive guys dont worry you'll find some1 and you sound really cute ;]

Answer 9

Hey there u are more than happy to add me to messanger if u got it my name on there is [e-mail] or email me if u like I think that looks shouldnt make a difference to me looks dont mean nothing its whats on the inside that counts they just have to have a good heart and soul be faithful and honest

Answer 10

Yes someone will like you for who you are, glasses and all. But not many females like shy guys. Try christiansingles.com, I'm sure there you would meet someone who has the same goals, likes, and qualities that you are looking for. Be blessed!