I've had a boyfriend for three months. I know he would never cheat on me. He's not that kind of person. He has a lot of friends that are girls and we share a lot of friends. He talks to them, hugs them, and has tickle fights with them. I know it's just friendly and doesn't mean anything, but I still get jealous. And now that we're going to go to different colleges in the fall I worry about him finding another girl who's prettier, nicer, funnier than me. I'm so insecure with myself. I don't want to be jealous. Please help me to get rid of this useless emotion.
2007-05-13 12:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by blue_seal07 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the things that might have attracted you to him was the fact that he is a tactile person. You should accept the bad with the good. One of the reasons he may be outgoing and "touchy feely" (all things you like in him) may be a large part of who he is.
If he is like that, then you should realize that this is how he communicates. More than likely this is just his nature.
2007-05-14 15:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by way2ticklish4myowngood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, really I would not enjoy tickle fights w/ other women...i would tell him that makes you uncomfortable...as far as college goes...ask him what his intentions are...a lot of couples do break up when they go to college...because that is the beginning of life...so remember that...if u do break up in colege...that is the beginning not the end...be happy with who you are, and relise you don't need a man to live life happily...i am sure u could find one who focuses his attention on you and only you...
2007-05-13 19:17:00 · answer #2 · answered by crazeymazey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, when you go to college, see a counselor...at most schools they are free. Its not that you are jealous its an insecurity problem and having someone to talk to would help to make both of you very happy.
2007-05-13 19:13:16 · answer #3 · answered by TheComputerHacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk about this to him so that way he could know how you feel about him and maybe he will stop doing that but if you dont feel comfortable asking him i suggest you look on the positive side and think of how much he loves you he probulary thinks you are the bestgirlfriend a boyfriend could ever have
2007-05-13 19:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by melissa R. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one here can help you do that. Only you can. If you are really serious about it, you can start by having your doctor recommend a therapist for you. Good luck!
2007-05-13 19:13:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you need to just calm down. and keep calling him when you think hi is cheating on you. like when he is at school call his cell phone.
2007-05-13 19:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by tia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋