I am just thinking because there's a girl whom I really enjoy being around, and I am comofortable with her when we go out; she's pretty and everyone thinks she's attractive. But why would I rather be with her, when there's another girl whom is more attractive than her, and is actually a model, and asks me out...but I would rather be with the first girl.
2007-05-13 10:36:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you know you care about the first one more, then you're OK...Don't worry about the second one...if you are thinking maybe the second one just because she's hot, you're shallow as hell...
2007-05-13 10:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by Terry C. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go what your heart tells you. Because you see the girl's inner beauty and that what makes you attractive to her. You most likely enjoy the girl you feel comitted to. She enjoy being with you because she sees your inner beauty too. You see you realize you see people's inner beauty without realizing it, it happens to many people thats why you ask your self why would a pretty girl marry an ugly man? The answer is the girl sees the inner beauty rather than the actual apperance.
2007-05-13 17:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone starts out with physical attraction, but after you get to know someone then it goes beyond that. You would rather hang out with the person who has more of your attraction rather than just physical. Sure the other girl is a hot model, but how well do you know her? You know this other girl. You understand her and she understands you! What you two have goes beyond physical!!!
2007-05-13 17:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more mentally compatible then the physical.......ur relaxed and comfortable talking to the first girl then the model who has just looks but doesn't share ur thot process or a similar wavelength to u so ur quite attracted and need to be with the first girl then this model. It's human nature to feel needed, wanted, feel comfortable with when u are with the people u care about or start to care about.
2007-05-14 13:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by kittana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems cliche, but I highly recommend the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus by Dr. Grey.
Looks are far from everything; their are plenty of beautiful women who are not "models" but are pretty and make a much better match for a man.
Not only that, but there are even many subtle things about "looks" that please us in unique ways. For me, I find "model" skinny women highly un-attractive; in real life they have long thin faces that look awkward outside of a camera. They look brittle and strung out like they could collapse on the street before making it to the movies.
I much prefer a woman with some mental and physical strength; one that can hold her own in a conversation, and on a hiking trail.
2007-05-13 17:44:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say it's many things. I'd say it's something we can't figure out, like energy fields, or hormones or sents. I've wondered many times myself. Just roll with it, whoever it is you are attracted to. Maybe in your case you like the idea of the first girl, because she seems so flawless and unattainable.
2007-05-13 17:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there is more than a physical attraction with that first girl. You like who she is as a person. Remember, beauty is only skin deep!
2007-05-13 17:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by dsmith21345 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you feel more compatible and comfortable with the first girl. Pheromones (subtle biological smells) play a big part in who we're attracted to and who we are not.
2007-05-13 17:40:48 · answer #8 · answered by J T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that old saying "looks ain't everything"? well in you case they aren't.
2007-05-13 17:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋