i dont know how much more i can take....just yesterday me and my girlfriend where fine.....now to day i forgot what time her game was and asked her she goes off and tells me to leave only to come back in a hour after she cools down, so im not feeling good you know how it is after a fight and im a little depressed but the dumb *** that i am i walk over to see her dad in the yard working on a bench and her younger sister by the pool so i walk over to the door and her dad asks give me a hand? sure i walk over and i hear somthing and her older sister come out of the house and starts hurling water baloons at me....then she comes out and trows them and like as fast as she can at like 5 feet....and she doesnt even look like she enjoying leaving marks on my ribcage....so now im kinda of mad sad depressed and i just dont know what to do any ideas? she does this to me a lot we will be good then i do one little thing and bam i feel like **** for a while then we start the ride back over.....
2007-05-13 10:15:57 · 12 answers · asked by psp07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she is pmsing jk well maybe lol ............ i do that to my boy friend too i get mad at him for no reason.... he wanted to talk about it one day so we did and now i think before i do something,..... i think you should talk to her about the way you feel ......... and about the sister think my boyfriends little sister is always kicking me or doing something to hurt me..... i dont think she means it but more that she just wants attention from me....you just need to talk to your girl friend.... the way her and her family are treating you is a problem that needs to be talked about...if she doesnt want to talk then leave her.....
2007-05-13 10:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what the rest of your life will be like with this girl.This is why I tell people to get to know someone FIRST before getting emotionally invested.People feel lust towards a person think its love then they have sex, shack up and then LEARN what they could have know about the person without having sex or shacking.By this time theres a lot of emotional investment at least on the part of one person.Personally,I'd move out get a place of my own and then start over.I think either he sister hates you, or she likes you and this is her way of flirting believe it or not.The way to tell is the next time your g/f treats you badly,talk to her sister and say"y'know I really love your sister but it hurts me so much when she does (fill in the blank). If she gets very defensive and takes her sister's side no matter whaat then you know it's hate,if she says "well I'd never treat you like that or she is terrible for doing that to you and youre so sweet etc'.Then you know she is intrested in you.
2007-05-13 17:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave!!! She is very abusive to you mentally and emotionally. Not only that, she has her sister throwing things at you that are hurting you. What else does she have to do to make you go? She hurts you, then she makes up with you. It's just a repeat. You are in the reverse of a woman. Get out while you are still sane and can walk. LEAVE HER!!!
2007-05-13 17:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by happygrl2k4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In your situation, it might just be best to go, it sounds like your younger and you need to get out of the situations now. Before you seriously get hurt, and before you get too depressed. Maybe if you are depressed, maybe you should get some help, no offense, but if you let her step all over you, that won't do you any good. All the best, and I hope your situation gets better.
2007-05-13 17:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.. that sounds mean! Why did she throw the balloons at you?? That's sounds a bit immature, but i think you should talk to her and see if she really wants to be in the relationship. Because to me it kind of sounds as if you two are on two different pages. If the situation gets worse then you should try to find someone better. No one deserves to be treated badly... But i wish you the best of luck with your situation and i hope you make the right choice!!
2007-05-13 17:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by Venya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly she is immature and insecure, you can do better. Do you really want this kind of drama in your life? Guys forget things like that all the time, do you honestly think you can remember everything you need to and everything she wants you too? She is going to be going off on you like this all the time, and it seems she likes to hurt you too. This is no way to go thought life, there are plenty of low maintenance girls out there. Why settle for a high one?
2007-05-13 17:20:27 · answer #6 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen man, you sound young and she sounds like a pain in the ***, life is short and there are plenty of girls to go around, don't waste your time with one that makes you feel crappy. You gotta think hard, are the good times worth the bad times and are there more good times then bad. Think about that you'll have your answer.
2007-05-13 17:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by HOVO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is best to just get out of this relationship as it appears not to be a healthy one at all.
I always look at things this way "are you will to accept this type of relationship for the rest of your life." If your answer is NO, then get out of it and move on. Someone special is waiting for you ....
2007-05-13 17:20:19 · answer #8 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a dumb reason 4 her to get mad at you if its always like this then call it quits sure relationships have their ups and downs but it shouldn't be a roller coaster
2007-05-13 17:21:32 · answer #9 · answered by The Evil Genius 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just end it. It's not worth the misery. If you stay, she's just gonna take advantage of you and continue it.
2007-05-13 17:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋