kay so i was just talking to my 15 ( almost 16 ) year old sister . . & i told her i was pregnant & she said "me too!" =| & she's serious !!!!! i dunno what to do ! she has a boyfriend but . . omg she's not even 16 yet !! what should i do ?!?!
2007-05-13 10:07:49 · 35 answers · asked by Chante Alexis 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
actually , i'm 20 & engaged .
2007-05-13 10:12:24 · update #1
some of you guys are idiots , ( the ones that are saying you both need to keep your legs closed & such ) like honestly , if you aren't gunna say anything helpful , then shut the fuc.k up . but the rest of you thanks a bunch =) oxoxo
2007-05-13 10:17:34 · update #2
Best thing to do is TALK TO HER.Dont go running to your parents just yet because she'll lose trust in you! Try and talk things out with her and make her see things your way. Then try and convince her to tell her parents.She is still under age and needs some adult guidance.If she dosen't want to and she's making the wrong choices, then tell your parents. Good luck to you and your sis and Congrats on your pregnancy :)
2007-05-13 10:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not really anything you can do. You get three choices. Adoption you could talk to her about that. Abortion. Some people don't believe in it but it's still an option if she wants to have fun in high school. Or keep it. I'm 15. I was pregnant not to long ago. I lost it. Most young people have a miscarriage. Maybe she will to.
2007-05-13 10:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a real hard one. Well as difficult as it may be, your parents have got to be told. This is bigger than the two of you and she's going to need help deciding what her next move will be. Yahoo Answers is great for advice and even technical support, but you need your parents help, or at least another adult that you can trust who will consider your interest and the best option available for her. I wish you and your sister luck.
2007-05-13 10:12:55 · answer #3 · answered by sustasue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents. If she wants the baby let her have it, if not it's her decision. 15 is young - i was 25 and still wasn't ready, i don't think anyone is ever really ready to have a baby, no one understands the impact they have on your life, emotionally and financially. I I didn't plan to have children, I now have 3 and i love them. I really don't think it matters how old you are, if you are prepared to love the child and put the child first bring them into the world. if you cant don't have them in the first place. My pet hate is mothers who go back to work full time just to pay for their flashy houses, cars and clothes and dump the kids on other people.
2007-05-13 10:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by snaccm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to someone you can trust and get your sister to a doctor.If she is keeping the baby,she needs to figure out how she is going to pay for it.The father of the baby also needs to know he now has a responsibility.If he isn't willing to take the responsibility than your sister will have to take him to court.There are all kinds of programs to help her out.You are a great sister to be there for her.God bless and good luck both of you.
2007-05-13 10:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by gerdie65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be loving and supportive to your sister and let her know you are there for her. Encourage her to tell your parents so they can help her in any way they can. I mean really what else is there you can do?
2007-05-13 10:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe she was kidding..Well you need to sit down with her and your parents... Tell them you are pregnant and see if your sister tells them if she doesn't, then maybe it was a joke..
You should probably say, oh and my sis is pregnant too..Cause if she is maybe then she will admit it..
Communication is very essential in this matter.. Especially cause you want to make sure she is eating right while carrying a child...And you being pregnant shouldn't stress that your sis is...Leave it to your parents to handle..
2007-05-13 10:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by BettyBoopGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find out if she's really telling the truth, then your parents have to be included no matter what the punishment is. It is less pressuring if you tell them before they find out.
2007-05-13 10:12:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lori15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I can understand you becasue you are engaged so it really itsnt shocking but your sister... well I really dont beleive that part!! But if t is true then talk to your parents!!
2007-05-13 10:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! That's serious! Well I think the only thing you can do is help her though this and be a loving sister...There's really not another option.
2007-05-13 10:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by naomienge 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋