Im fifteen and the confine me to the basis of my room. and the backyard. HELP ME PLEASE! im drowning
2007-05-13 10:03:48 · 14 answers · asked by allexus L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
When i was little i could not be controlled. Nad they freak out over little things like me having food in my room leaning on the kitchen table. Also my stepfather has alot of things to do with this problem he has been a round since i was three. he is extremely hard to get along with.
2007-05-13 10:10:28 · update #1
Fart constantly at the kitchen table during supper...
EDIT: Alright, time to be serious...my stepdad was a total @ss...I feel your pain...my mom never stuck up for me and I had to fight my own battles...I resent both of them for that. All you need to understand is that this will make you a stronger person someday...I'm sorry you have to go through this..please email me if you need someone to talk to.
2007-05-13 10:06:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
At least you have parents who want the best for you. Other people's parents are drug addicts, alcoholics, prostitutes on the street corner. And don't even notice when they're kids are home or not. So if i were you i would stick it out and realize you know what "THey actually do care about me". At least they are teaching you etiquette. A room is not made to eat in...so really let go of the small things and thank God everyday that you have people around you who care
2007-05-14 07:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Future Mrs. Hamlet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your actions have to prove that they can really believe in you. It's not a game. They are not going to trust you unless you show true respect for them as parents. Why do they confine you to your room or the back yard? If you are dissing them and talking back, then maybe that's where you belong until you can control yourself. Remember, discipline is *LOVE*
2007-05-13 10:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gain your parents trust by being trustworthy. Obey them when they tell you to do something and respect and honor them as your parents. If you would like a little more freedom, sit down with them and request a little more - outlining things/actions you have done that have shown them that they can trust you and give you a little more freedom. However, if you have done things in the past that caused them to not trust you presently, you need to work on building their trust up again before sitting down to request more freedom.
2007-05-13 10:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of tricky approximately what issues make the grownup respond. do not harp on the region that brought about the rift. as quickly as in college we had 2 warring communities of scholars. at some point an older student pulled the two communities mutually. quite than talk approximately what anyone human beings disliked approximately the different, he asked each and each human beings to grant one constructive trait of the different. It became into exceedingly revealing and it decreased the arguing. yet yet returned i wanted my Father to co-sign for a automobile yet he became into steadfastly against it time after time. purely via accident at some point I have been given the brochure for the hot automobile and went down and attempt drove it. I got here returned to my Father and quite of asking him to co-sign I enthusiastically advised him the virtues of the automobile and confirmed him the photos. I won him over and he desperate to co-sign. attempt to get some humor or a chortle out of the grownup and maybe they are going to respond in a distinctive way.
2016-12-11 08:28:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fifth teen was they hardest age. They best way to get your parents is to earn it. What easier way then to get good grades, and do after school sports. But, You must learn the best skill that you will be ever be able to have and that is communication. You must not ever lie. This will just get you in more trouble. But, you need to remember if you did the crime you gotta do the time.
2007-05-13 10:15:42 · answer #6 · answered by michaelannlovesca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have done something in the past that made your parents lose their trust in you.Try to earn it back by getting good grades and making them proud of you
2007-05-13 10:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Lori15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you do something? How are your grades and habits at home? I know I personally have 2 kids...I'll trust one with more than I do the other....One keeps his grades up and does his chores and is more responsible...the other well he does ok but he's shown me I need to watch him alot more....
2007-05-13 10:08:00 · answer #8 · answered by grdnangel0209 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could gain it by doing some chores or house work without even being told
2007-05-13 10:08:52 · answer #9 · answered by Vi3t_Babii_Michi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could start by NOT calling them your parental figures.
2007-05-13 10:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋