He winks at me quite a bit. He rubs up against me and tells me jokes. He even joked about a candlelight dinner. I just don't know if I should push this subject because I am dating someone else right now (married man) or do I give this other man a shot(not married).
2007-05-13 09:37:24 · 11 answers · asked by Lindy Vansaghi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
first off you don't belong dating anyone married but your life. second, with all the workplace harassment laws out there Im surprised you don't just put your foot down and tell this guy to knock it off or you'll report him. smart thing is to avoid workplace romance anyway as only aholes crap where they eat.
2007-05-13 09:41:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is showing you something not much of a gentleman though if he likes you he should ask you out on a nice date and you can respond he is throwing mixed messages to see if your going to be easy by letting him rub against you if hes bold enough to do that then be bold enough to say whats up with that what exactly do you want and girl friend why a married man this is never good not only is it a curse to mess around with someone Else's husband you do reap what you sow yeah first drop that zero(married) and try someone knew but only if hes single and get more self esteem and quit settling for less and don't let someone just get free feels Have more self control over your flesh learn your worth its all right to way your options and you have choices be choosy you'll feel more powerful and in control trust me it works respect feels better than disrespect
2007-05-13 10:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give the co-worker a chance, because the married guy is never going to leave his wife he is just looking for a little action on the side. And you deserve someone who is going to be there for you completely and not married. You and this married guy can't possibly have a healthy future because every night he goes home to his wife unless they are seperated. Point blank you deserve someone who is committed only to you, but this your life.
2007-05-13 09:55:17 · answer #3 · answered by tasheema22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the single guy a shot, hey it just might work out and you will lost nothing. Besides the married guy can't say a word to you, he is MARRIED! Good luck.
2007-05-13 09:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does this coworker know you are the "other woman" in a relationship with a married man?
Most likely he thinks you are a slut.
Give him a shot if you wish.
2007-05-14 05:03:19 · answer #5 · answered by Terri 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating a married man he assumes you have very low standards and he wants to get in on the action..Raise the bar on what you expect from life. Surely you deserve better.
2007-05-13 09:43:50 · answer #6 · answered by Cinna 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You will never know unless you try .. what have you got to loose ? But .... A COWORKER doesn't sound very good , might cause complications in a long run , at the end of the day you will have to work with him whatever happens .
Personally , i would keep my private affairs well away from work .
2007-05-13 09:44:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you like the unmarried guy? If yes then give him a shot. AND-------------------Why can't you go out with a second guy if the first one is married. It's not like you are his one and only!! Wise up and get rid of the married guy who you shouldn't be messing with anyway! Good Luck
2007-05-13 09:42:08 · answer #8 · answered by luv2fish2extremes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and this has exactly WHAT to do with Weddings?
I mean, maybe I am reading the question incorrectly, but it sounds to me like you are asking us if you should continue to be a homewrecker or not. You causing another man to break his marriage vows doesnt have anything to do with weddings.
2007-05-13 10:17:58 · answer #9 · answered by Paradise Weddings & Travel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I just can't believe you... you are dating a Married man?? You Home Wrecker!!!
2007-05-17 08:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by Jen Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋