what do girls look for in a guy?

Question

what is it that you girls look for in a guy. i mean we are human beings. we can't always be some one you want. so what is it you look for in a guy

Answer 1

patience
understanding
sense of humor
chivalrous
honest
attractive
faithful
easy going personality
ambitous
un-prideful
sensitive, but not too sensitive
could dance, or at least is willing to dance
open minded
intelligent
someone you could see a future with
sweet lover
down to earth
reliable
charming
loyal
charitable
desireable
clean
good with kids, pets and elders
respectful
romantic
remembers importan dates (bday, anniv, vday etc.)
unpredictable.. always keeps u on your toes
and definitely knows his priorities...


i could go on... but it's basically what guys look for in girls... you know.. all of those above... and the type of guy you could take to the most boringest place ever but still have the best time... someone you could bring home to the parental unit and not be afraid but be very proud... someone who makes you be a better person... and someone who could be your best friend and life partner.



PS. star for you... coz wow what a refreshing question... =)

Answer 2

Though looks do count at first glance, it's the guy's attitude and personality that matters in the long run. Genuine caring and respect counts a lot. Honesty is also a must. Of course ladies are flattered with guys' attention but bear in mind that making her feel boxed-up will surely shy her away from you. Make her still breathe the fresh air even if your always around. Don't hide your feelings too long if you can positively feel that you have a chance. Don't be too pushy though! Somebody might be in the position that could have been yours. Be careful of not leading your actions to stalking. It's a big turn-off! Know her interests and try to be a fun person to be with! Try also to understand her unspoken thoughts by being sensitive of her actions. As you'have said we are human beings so basically we might be looking for the same thing, at least. We all need friends so i think there's no harm in becoming one first and foremost... Goodluck!

Answer 3

A Girl Like Me. It Doesn't Take Much To Please. Just A Guy That Is An All In One Package, Meaning One That Can Be My Best Friend And A Boyfriend. Ones I Can tell Anything To, And Ones That Don't Rush Me. And When They Call Me Just To Say They love Me. Most of All Honesty, No Girl Likes To Be Lied To. But It Really Does Depend, Different Girls Look For Different Things.

Answer 4

Humor, romance, kindness, loving, faithful and someone who is good to them. Patience, intelligence, and stability. Woman love to be treated with respect, and love. To mean something, and to be the only one that matters other than family. All women are different but we all wish to be treated a certain way. Don't worry honey, just in your question alone you sound very sweet and I'm very sure you will meet someone and treat them the way they wish to be treated. If your not sure what she wants, then the best thing to do is ask. Getting her perspective is the best way to please her. Good luck!

One note: some women will be shallow and say looks are important, but in all honesty it's not. If the person treats you wonderful, you really wouldn't care what they look like. That's the problem, to many shallow and picky people in the world. I'm not obsessed with someones looks when it comes down to it.

Answer 5

it does depend on what you're looking for in a girl, you want to click with the girl you're looking for.

so,

what you're looking for , you should have those same traits

if you're looking for a down to earth girl, who doesn't have to wear Prada shoes or drive a BMW, who's funny, but not totally nerdy, who's pretty but not angelina jolie, who's got a good job & likes movies & laughing.

you should be those things.

There is no direct an precise answer to your question, i'm sorry to say.

The easier approach to your question would be start with "what do girls NOT like in a guy" or about a guy... & just NOT be those things.

Answer 6

As long as there is chemistry between 2 persons. It is all about feelings. Why girls fall for bad guys? Everyone is special in his own way. I do not believe that all women will get someone who meets all the specified criterias & personalities.

Women also accept guys who do not meet all the requirements because of "love". Sometimes these women wonder why they fell for such men.

Answer 7

those solutions are hysterical. women human beings (not women) spend lots time and $$ searching for the ideal bra or shirt that attracts a guy of their path. Spend limitless hours in front of the replicate considering themselves. Victoria secrets and techniques is a save almost dedicated to showing off womens breasts. So i don't even choose to hearken to approximately 'OMG' are you able to suspect that guy replaced into unquestionably watching my new $7000 boob interest. Or, 'The Nerve' of that guy sorting out my $seventy 5 rack in my new Victoria secrets and techniques bra.

Answer 8

first of all, i look for a guy that is attractive to me and then i go on to personality. i like guys that are smart and can have a REAL conversation and are funny. it is so much fun to flirt with a guy and tease each other. i also look for involvement in sports, music, and/or other extracuricular activities. community service is really good. in fact, i met three different guys at community service. and i'm going to call the last of them today. (p.s. i'm only really interested in the last one, and got only his number) so yeah, hope that helps! :]

Answer 9

1. The Geek Look
2. Smarts but not a TOTAL smartass about it
3. Fun loving
4. Sarcastic
5. Whatever he wants as long as it's comfortable

Answer 10

Smart, common sense, sweet, caring, not stuck up, not flirting with other girls when in a relationship, and a good friendship bond for if it doesnt work out but u still wanna b friends