Please, males and females, help! My boyriend has changes how he is with me. He doesn't want much affection and doesn't say how he feels about me anymore. What are the signs that someone is cheating. This is also a question for those who have been cheating. You know the best!
2007-05-13 07:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by Lona 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you obviously don't trust him... instead of wasting your time and energy TRYING to find out if he is cheating, just dump him... :D
2007-05-13 07:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Loss of Sex Drive
Unless there is another cause of stress (i.e., difficult assignment at work), then a sudden loss of interest in sex may indicate your loved one is getting it elsewhere.
Defensiveness
A cheating partner often feels bad deep down and this guilt can come out via defensiveness or blame placed on you. Be on the look out for signs of aggressiveness from your partner.
Host of Excuses
They may seem cliche, but comments about needing to work late, having to take a business trip, or needing to unexpectedly meet with a client, can all be signs of cheating.
Telephone Hang-Ups
If your partner's new liaison is bold enough to call your home number, he or she may hang up if you answer, instead of your partner Gifts Out of Nowhere
Besides defensiveness, your cheating partner may try to throw you off track by being extra nice. Flowers, chocolate, and other gifts, especially if they are typically uncommon, could be a sign of infidelity.
Please do keep in mind that none of these signs are guarantees of a cheating partner. They are only indicators, and the more of them you see, the higher the chances something is going on. Communicate with your partner if you feel something is going on, and you'll give your relationship the best shot at surviving over the long haul.
2007-05-13 14:07:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you should really sit down with him and find out where his head is and how he is feeling?? That may help you find out what is really going on. If you've already done that then maybe you should be up front with him and tell him you can't continue being with him if you continues to act this way and not giving you any reason. Life is short. Its better to just cut to the chase and instead of worrying about it. Good luck!! You will save a lot of time and headache by doing it this way!!
2007-05-13 14:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean he is cheating, he could just be falling out of love with you. You might be reading way too much into this, common female mistake. Could be several things, none of which have to do with cheating. Why don't you just talk to him to find out what is wrong...or is that too easy?
2007-05-13 14:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by Just a friend. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you call he doesn't answer his phone. He acts weird around you. When you ask questions, he avoids the answers. He doesn't want to look at you. He smells funny. Ask him if he is and see how he reacts. He doesn't want to hang out.
2007-05-13 14:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Melanie P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM not an expert at CHEATING but ive been CHEATED ON
I deffinitly think those are siqns
2007-05-13 14:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by suqasuga224 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he always cancel your dates? does he not pay attention on your dates? do you feel like you tell eachother everything? can you trust him? answer those truthfully and then you can probably tell.
2007-05-13 14:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by clarabelle1256 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋