i dont do any house chore around the house. i let my parents do the work and i treat them badly. if im watching t.v. and my parents take the remote away from me, i curse them out and grab it back.
they're old and i treat them so badd!! i dont want to anymore but i feel like a spoil brat and i get sezuires everytime i dont get my way.
2007-05-13 06:39:36 · 11 answers · asked by Malina Kaui Gazel 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
get off your *** and help out! no one will feel sorry for you and give you attention because of your selfeshness.
2007-05-13 06:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's safe to say you're exceptionally immature and self-centered. You can choose to be a thoughtful, caring person. You can start right now. Help your parents with the chores and do thoughtful things for them. Show that you love them and care for them. You will feel much better about yourself and will no longer feel guilty. The sooner you learn to do good things for others without and expectation of getting something in return, the happier you'll be. It will make a BIG difference in your life!!!!
2007-05-13 13:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel guilty because deep down inside you know that it is wrong. Teenagers get that thrill to be a hard ***. It's normal. I would try writing in a diary all that bad stuff you want to say. That way you get it off your chest. It works for me. Try your hardest to do some chores and if you ever get anything accomplish reward yourself by going out to the movies or something to that sort.
2007-05-13 13:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by badd_ass_mafia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i kinda had that problem with my mom about a year ago. i could be yelling at her one minute, not truely even caring about what i was mad about, feeling sorry about it the next, and the next i would be hating myself for being that way. the hardest part is feeling like you're weak if you stop and apologize, so i didn't. the thing that helped me though, is stopping to think about whether or not what i was fighting about was worth fighting for and if i was even really that upset about it. i felt like a spoiled brat too, but sometimes you've just got to stop and think about why they aren't giving you what you want. try to find and understand their good reason. you'll probably not be so mad then.
i hope you get better because i know how you feel. and it is depressing more than anything.
2007-05-13 14:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by gertie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do something nice for them... STOP BEING MEAN... you can control yourself.. if not then you need to learn how.. freaking out on someone isn't gonna get you everything in life.. one day your parents are not gonna be there for you, so you better respect them now.. alot of things happen unexpectedly... when they do you can never say what you really wanted to tell them... then you end up feeling guilty the rest of your life... stop being being a baby and get over yourself!!!
2007-05-13 13:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i feel sorry 4 u i think you have a problem called brat syndrom i'm not being mean but it seems like u think the world revovles around you and it doesent when u get an adult are u gonna treat others like that? because i know some people who wont tolerate that bratty behavior
get help
2007-05-13 15:55:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
think about how you want to be treated by your kids when you have them.... think about what your parents mean to you and what you mean to them... dont you want them to be happy? im sure you do....
i know from experience that if you start with a positive frame of mind you are not gonna hate helping around... start by doing small things that dont require alot of time.... slowly cut out your tv time and other things that you could do without... you dont have to do all the chores by yourself, maybe you could help your mum or dad... make it a positive experience... try your best from now on...
im sure your parents wil love you for it!
2007-05-13 13:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anjali DC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you even ask why you feel guilty? Have you read what you wrote? I'm guessing your either an only child or you have an older sibling that has to do everything around the house.
2007-05-13 13:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pshh sounds like me except a little worse
i help around the house more now though. i often hoover my room now and im not as lazy as i used to be
its hard to get out of habits, but if you care enough you will =) You just gotta have the will power to change things, because no one else will do it for you
2007-05-13 13:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least you know your bad points! Why not try doing something positive for a change?
2007-05-13 13:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by Always Hopeful 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋